Maybe you guys can help me out. I have been tasked with planning a summer camping trip for my extended family and I am hoping to find a campground in New Hampshire or Maine that offers the following:

* Not too rustic: showers and flush toilets a must
* Ocean or large lake with nearby boat ramp
* On-site swimming pool or beach
* Geared to family and tent camping, not RVs
* Less than 200 miles from Boston

Any suggestions are appreciated!

There is a campground where I live Hampton, called Tidewater Campground, and it meets your requirements I believe...

It's right next to the estuary, across the street from the trestle where I fish almost everyday, and the boat launch is right down the tracks from the trestle, about .25 mile. You can launch in the estuary, and go right out to the harbor.

Its about 1 mile down Rte. 101 from the beach.

There is also another one in Hampton Falls that is real nice, and its down the street from the estuary too :)

http://www.wakedacampground.com