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JohnR
06-11-2002, 09:53 AM
Last night, my father passed away. He'll be missed by me, all of his kids, his wife, my grandmother, his brothers, and our other friends and family.

Overall, he was a good guy that did some important things but he has been sick for the past 10 years so. He was kind of playing with the house's money anyway. Miss ya Dad...

But I wanted to pass along that I'll be offline a little over the next few days and that I might not be able to make Cuttyhunk this weekend (although that may be just what the doctor ordered). I still want to try but I won't know either way until later this week.

Everyone that can, give a little extra hug to yuor dads this weekend. I know I'll be hugging my son...

Thanks,

John

STEVE IN MASS
06-11-2002, 10:01 AM
So sorry to here that, John. :(

It is always tough, but must be especially so with the holiday this weekend.

My and Donna's toughts will be with you and your family.

Hopefully, he is in a land full of fish, or full of whatever he enjoyed most. :)

nightfighter
06-11-2002, 10:03 AM
John,

If I may speak for us as a group here at S-B, we ALL have you, your family and your father in our prayers. A difficult time no doubt. Many of us have been through this loss, myself included. Never a good time, (my father passed away on a Christmas Eve) but we can only be assured they are OK and no longer suffering. Stick close with your family, rely on your faith, and reach out to friends who are there for you when you need it.

We're here if you need a voice at the other end of the line.

Best to the family.

Ross

179
06-11-2002, 10:20 AM
John,
Sorry to hear that, I am sure all our prayers are with you and your family!

chris L
06-11-2002, 10:27 AM
John
Im sorry to hear about your Dad ! Ill keep him and yours in my thoughts thru the week .

saltydawg
06-11-2002, 10:29 AM
John R., our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jim & Deb

Fishpart
06-11-2002, 10:29 AM
John,
Sorry about your Dad. If you need ANYTHING please call.

striperjerk1
06-11-2002, 10:30 AM
sorry to hear about youre dad. my deepest sympathys and thoughts are with you and youre family.

Mr. Kav
06-11-2002, 10:34 AM
sorry to hear that john, my condolences goes out to you and your family.

JHABS
06-11-2002, 10:46 AM
JOHN, Sorry to here of the loss of your dad, My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

schoolie monster
06-11-2002, 10:50 AM
John, you have Karen and my best wishes.

As you know, I will have a rare chance to see my dad for the next few days. He will be up wednesday night to fish for several days. That to me, is as quality of time as we can spend together. I think it will mean a little bit more to me, knowing what you are going through.

I generally only see him 2 or 3 times a year, but we usually make those times count by spending that time out on the water.

Hey, you need to talk or whatever... when you take care of what you need to take care of, let's set a day and get together and fish.. cool?

Weekend or weekday (I'll take a day off), whatever, let's just get together.

Take it very easy.

kippy
06-11-2002, 10:56 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your loss John. My condolences go out to you and your family.

Tony

tobias
06-11-2002, 10:56 AM
John - I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

Tobias

"Lou"
06-11-2002, 11:19 AM
John, I'm very sad to hear of your loss, you have my deepest sympathies and you and your family are in my prayers.

"lou"

JohnR
06-11-2002, 11:31 AM
Thanks everyone. I know that I appreciate and that my family appreciates all of your thoughts & prayers. It wasn't a shock but it's still a shock. He's in a much better place right now.

Again thanks...

Slipknot
06-11-2002, 11:48 AM
I am very sorry to hear that John. Our condolences to you and your family.:(
May God give you and your family strength in this difficult time.

capesams
06-11-2002, 11:54 AM
JOHN:

SAM, KAREN and I would like to send our deepest sympathies to you and your family for the loss of your farther. I know your pain and only hope that in time that pain will ease.

steve

Bill L
06-11-2002, 12:01 PM
John, my condolences to you and your family. I wish you all well in this time of loss.
Bill

Trayder
06-11-2002, 12:25 PM
John-

My thoughts are with you, if you need anything please ask.


Jason

Krispy
06-11-2002, 12:31 PM
Sorry to hear about your father John. My condolences to you and your family and best wishes in getting through these tough times.

Krispy

Clammer
06-11-2002, 12:33 PM
John, Sheila & i and sorry to hear of your loss,no words can change things but you and your family are in our prayers !!
If you need anything at all just give us a call we;ll be there

MIke

Mr. Sandman
06-11-2002, 12:35 PM
John,

My sincerest sympathies to you and your family.

Cuttyhunk ain't going anywhere, your welcome to join me fishing that place this fall.

The tide will change, hang in there.

Squid kids Dad
06-11-2002, 01:11 PM
John,
Sorry to hear about your loss...You and your family will be in my prayers...
Mike

Saltheart
06-11-2002, 01:24 PM
Bad news John. If there's any way I can help out , just call. I'm right up the road.

Sit alone and think about the past. Then sit with your son and think about the future. Both will make you cry but its good for you.

Sorry for your lose.
Mike

Jenn
06-11-2002, 01:42 PM
Never easy to loose a loved one. No doubt you are in all our prayers and I think I speak for most of us when I say if you need anything....just ask!

Got Stripers
06-11-2002, 02:28 PM
John, I'm sorry to hear about your loss:(. You and yours will be in my thoughts. If you can't make Cutty and I don't either (for my own wacky family reasons), maybe we can hook up for a morning excursion out of Scituate. Like you I'm calling this one late in the week, so I'll pop you an email or a post later. Hang tough.

TheSpecialist
06-11-2002, 02:58 PM
John sorry to hear about your dad.

fishweewee
06-11-2002, 03:00 PM
John,

I am truly sorry to hear of your father's passing.

May he rest in peace and may his memory sustain you and your loved ones.

-FWW

Fisherwoman
06-11-2002, 03:09 PM
JohnR, Gwen & Liam, we are sorry to hear the sad news. I have had many deaths in my family and no matter how much you know its going to happen it is still never easy to lose someone you love. You are in our prayers and hope that God helps ease your pain and sadness. I am also getting a rare opportunity this weekend as my dad and mom are coming back up from PA for about a week to do a little Harbor fishing on the boat. Can't wait to see him and mom as I only get to see them about 4 times a year, but talk to them every day. Hang in there John, if you need anything let us know.

Jersey_Jim
06-11-2002, 03:48 PM
John, My condolences to you and your family.
Jim

Billybob
06-11-2002, 04:05 PM
My condolences John, I make it a point to call my Dad everyday. Fill the void with your family and friends - and celebrate his life.

mrpogie
06-11-2002, 04:27 PM
John , so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family have our deepest sympathies. ...mrpogie

Crafty Angler
06-11-2002, 04:40 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss, John - our thoughts and prayers are with you.

OX
06-11-2002, 04:51 PM
John, sorry to hear of your loss. Good thoughts to you and yours.

Mike P
06-11-2002, 04:56 PM
John--I haven't been much of a presence here recently due to my own personal issues, but know I'm with you always in spirit, and please accept my heartfelt condolences over your loss, and my personal thanks and deep appreciation for all you're doing to help out Brad's widow and son.

Mike

GBOUTDOORS
06-11-2002, 05:01 PM
John as I told you this morn. if there is anything at all just say so. Also if you and GS can't make it this weekend you are both welcome anytime in the next few weeks just let me know.

Greg B.

wendymichele
06-11-2002, 05:17 PM
John I'm very sorry for your loss. Hang in there.

Scotch Bonnet
06-11-2002, 05:22 PM
John, my condolences to you and your family.

denis
06-11-2002, 06:03 PM
John

My condolence to you and your family


denis

Striper1
06-11-2002, 06:42 PM
Hang in there John think of the good times you had with your
Dad :D

Time will help I know:( :)

Goose
06-11-2002, 07:04 PM
Sorry to hear about the loss of your father, I'll keep him in my prayers.

joeangler
06-11-2002, 07:08 PM
john
my condolences to you and your family i wish ya the best:( :( :(

nor-easter
06-11-2002, 08:20 PM
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you as you face this change.
I faced this situation when I was nine years old. I know the pain you are going through but you were blessed with the years you were together and rest in comfort, knowing that he is at rest, beyond pain.

When the smoke clears contact me John. We are thankful that there are tides and moon all through the season. We can work it out!

Don M
06-11-2002, 08:25 PM
John,
Sorry to here of the loss of your dad, our deepest sympathy to you and your family. All of you will be in our prayers.

Charlie and Don

mikecc
06-11-2002, 08:31 PM
:( :( Sorry to here of your loss John

STRIPER77
06-11-2002, 08:42 PM
My deepest sympathy John. My prayers to you and your family.

Bazza
06-11-2002, 08:54 PM
John, sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. My families thoughts and prayers will be with, you especialy this weekend.

FRED
06-11-2002, 09:11 PM
John, sorry to hear about your loss.Our prayers are with you.

chingweiliao
06-11-2002, 11:04 PM
Dear John:
:( :(
I am sorry to hear that! With all my heart, I pray God to show his grace upon on your father's soul, you and your family!

Regards,

Ching-Wei Liao:(

bloocrab
06-12-2002, 12:19 AM
Originally posted by John R
He's in a much better place right now.



John, if you truly believe that...then let those words be the strength that carry you thru your sad moments.

...Keep your faith in the Lord, and everything else will work its way out. We sometimes forget that this "world" is a just a test, something to prepare us for our "real" future. We get tested everyday, whether we know it or not, and sometimes the tests are difficult. I believe the absence left by someone's death to be one of my more difficult tests to cope with but as long as we strive to stay on the right paths, we'll get thru them. You said that overall, he was a good guy that did some important things...

John...what you don't realize is that one of the most important things he did...was to raise a great son. The little time that I've known you, you've shown me that you have a great compassion for your fellow man, your a caring person...and you mention your own son quite frequently ..which leads me to believe that you are inspiring your son in the same ways your father inspired you and are following in your father's foot steps. Those are all important traits that your father helped install in you. Take pride in your father, and take pride in yourself. Smile, knowing that he is in "OUR" Father's care now, feeling NO more pain...but looking down upon his son, and feeling proud of him. John, use his death as a tool to remind you to keep your relationship just as strong, if not stronger with your own son. GOD bless you and your family, may he help you keep your chin up and continue to lead you down the correct paths. I'm not a preacher, but I believe FIRMLY in the Lord...and we don't always understand what happens or why he does things, but we have to learn to keep our faith strong. Once again, God Bless ~

My deepest regards to you and your family


Gilly ~ (Bloo)

MikeF
06-12-2002, 06:35 AM
John
I'm very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing away.

Plug
06-12-2002, 07:12 AM
John,

My sincere sympathy. You speak of the good man he was. It is evident his legacy continues in you. God bless.

Hugh

bdsandman
06-12-2002, 08:13 AM
John, Very sorry for your loss... My thoughts and prayers are with you.

HESH2
06-12-2002, 08:27 AM
JOHN MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,MY FAMILY WAS SO SORRY ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR DAD.ON THIS SITE WE ALL ARE A FAMILY AND WE ALL FELL YOUR LOSS.

OliverNBPT
06-12-2002, 09:16 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss. My sincere condolences go out to your family.

BasicPatrick
06-12-2002, 09:30 AM
John,

Sorry to hear about your loss. If there is anything tha I can do please ask. My prayers are with you brother.

Patrick

Marc Z
06-12-2002, 10:06 AM
John,
I'm very sorry about the loss of your father.
Regards,
Marc Z

gf2020
06-12-2002, 10:20 AM
My deepest sympathy to you and your family, John.

...Gordon

Canalratt1
06-12-2002, 11:11 AM
John sorry about your loss.

NaCl H2O
06-12-2002, 12:23 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss JR. Our condolences....

GaryK
06-12-2002, 01:13 PM
John, I'm sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I truly hope you have lots of fond memories, and pass some of those on to your son.

God bless you and your family.

Van
06-12-2002, 04:16 PM
John:

So sorry to hear about your loss.

It is at these times that we
are all thankful for family and friends.

I've been there too.

My condolences to you and yours.

JohnR
06-13-2002, 07:09 AM
I want to thank everyone for the very heartfelt wishes & prayers from all of you. It means a lot to me and to my family that you all offered encouragement at a tough time...

Thank you all very much

AveMariaCharters
06-13-2002, 09:34 AM
HI JOHN
I'm sorry to hear about your dad.
if you need anything please give a call

The Iceman 6
06-13-2002, 12:05 PM
John, our thoughts and prayers are with YA. Like you said, he's in a much better place...

Ice

flatts1
06-14-2002, 11:02 AM
John,

Cheryl and I are very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mike

Fish_Eye
06-14-2002, 12:14 PM
John,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you find comfort by remembering all the wonderful times you must have spent together.

Mike

Billyboy
06-15-2002, 07:49 AM
JR, Sincere condolences on the loss of your father. Keep your head up


Bill

Steve K
06-15-2002, 09:50 AM
John,

My deepest condolences to you and your family.



Steve K

saltydog
06-16-2002, 11:16 AM
JOHN, sorry to hear, hope your doing o.k. my thought will be w/you, an 10X10. "good luck good fishin":(

Spare Spool
06-17-2002, 09:44 AM
John, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

bassmaster
06-20-2002, 07:05 PM
Sorry Bubbah

JohnR
06-21-2002, 07:26 AM
Thanks again everyone, it has been a real tough 2 weeks...

Hey Bubba, thanks - I know the pain all too well... Let me know when you're ready to start talking that other stuff again, next week maybe?

bassmaster
06-21-2002, 05:36 PM
ok but i think u got to try it first:D

bassmaster
06-22-2002, 10:24 AM
.

JohnR
06-22-2002, 01:45 PM
OK :D :happy:

bassmaster
06-22-2002, 03:13 PM
See Ya next sat.........
Remind Me Im stupid:smash: