I read this book awhile back and plan to re-read it throughout raising my daughter. I strongly reccomend it for those of us raising daughters in the current day and age. I don't agree with everything, but it will scare you and possibly make you rethink your relationship with your girl and the decisions you make.

http://www.amazon.com/Strong-Fathers-Daughters-Secrets-Father/dp/1596980125

How old RIJ?

My son (9yrs) got the book 'Dangerous Book For Boys' and it is pissa, but for younger kids.

there is also a 'Dangerous Book for Girls', I would imagine it's as good.

Give yourself a pat on the back, It's good to see parents that care. sadly most don't.