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Backbeach Jake 09-11-2008, 08:42 PM Gertrude Dorothea (Francis) Jacobs Has gone to her reward. After a very long year of illness of illness and setback, she finally had no more fight left. A Graduate of P-town High School, North Truro townie, World traveler, model for Tiny Worthington's Fishnet Industries, Mother of 5 myself, Robert , Diane, James and Patrick. Married to Daniel R who passed on in 1990. She was a very special soul, it has been my distinct honor to have known her and a privelidge to have been her oldest son. Please , a few words from you all to smooth the road...
mikecc 09-11-2008, 08:43 PM My familys thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
JohnR 09-11-2008, 08:47 PM Gertrude Dorothea (Francis) Jacobs Has gone to her reward. After a very long year of illness of illness and setback, she finally had no more fight left. A Graduate of P-town High School, North Truro townie, World traveler, model for Tiny Worthington's Fishnet Industries, Mother of 5 myself, Robert , Diane, James and Patrick. Married to Daniel R who passed on in 1990. She was a very special soul, it has been my distinct honor to have known her and a privelidge to have been her oldest son. Please , a few words from you all to smooth the road...
Fred, you and your family, will be in my thoughts and prayers.
You can often tell the quality of the parents by the kids they've raised. Having the pleasure of knowing you and having met two of your brothers, I'm know she was a great lady.
Tough times for sure but she is up there looking down with your dad. Keep the memories fond and when you are out at night on that quiet beach, wind in your face, look up and say hello.
afterhours 09-11-2008, 08:55 PM fred- deepest condolences to you and your family from our family. sounds like she was a very special lady and she is now with your dad, don.
spence 09-11-2008, 08:55 PM Ditto all the above...my thoughts and prayers to your family.
-spence
Slipknot 09-11-2008, 09:06 PM Fred, very sorry for your loss. And like the others said, knowing you a little, I imagine she was special. Keep on being you and any empyness you feel will fade with time. Time spent fishing will help once things settle of course. Prayers for you and your family and your Mom.
Raider Ronnie 09-11-2008, 09:19 PM Sorry for the loss of your mother.
Adam_777 09-11-2008, 09:32 PM Sorry for your loss.Sounds like she was a great woman and hopefully you'll be reminded of all the good times shared .
Moses 09-11-2008, 09:39 PM Sorry for your loss. I too lost my mom back in 2004 way too soon. It's tough, but family and friends can ease the pain. Remember the good thoughts always......
tynan19 09-11-2008, 09:39 PM Fred, that was one of the nicest dedications to life I have ever read. In healing you will have all the cherished memories to replay to keep her close. My family sends our deepeset condolences.
BigFish 09-12-2008, 01:06 AM Fred, you are one of my favorite people here at S-B........I feel your pain. So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. All I can say is keep those great memories close and they will get you through this difficult time. Deepest condolences to you and your family Fred from the BigFish camp.:(
Plum Crazy 09-12-2008, 04:51 AM Sorry for your loss. Moms are so special and she will always be a part of you.
Katie 09-12-2008, 06:06 AM So sorry for your loss. :(
HESH2 09-12-2008, 06:35 AM Fred sorry for your lost sure she's in a better place.my t&p go out to you and family.
BigBo 09-12-2008, 06:49 AM So sorry for your loss Fred.:(
Bronko 09-12-2008, 07:38 AM Sorry for your los BBJ.
Slingah 09-12-2008, 07:42 AM sorry to hear of your loss Fred...I send my condolences...God Bless
PaulS 09-12-2008, 07:43 AM sorry for your loss. I am sure the nice memories that you have of her will help ease the pain.
Crafty Angler 09-12-2008, 07:51 AM Condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mom.
I have always believed that strong spirits never truly die and our strong bonds with them can never be broken.
Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
The Iceman 6 09-12-2008, 08:00 AM Fred -
Very sorry for you loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you & your family during this time. She's now in a better place!
Raven 09-12-2008, 08:06 AM Fred... It's real tough loosing your Mom because she was always the one you ran too as a little tyke to give you comfort and to wipe away your tears.
All i can tell you is....Right now your filled with grief
and sadness and your feeling rather over whelmed by it all.... but later on, many more fond memories will drift back up and surface into your conscience mind that will give you a reason to smile and experience comfort and Joy.
My mother's name was also Gertrude...and the other day i was holding a small pottery pitcher she had crafted out of clay....many many years ago but i could still feel her fingers in the molding of it...because it wasn't a perfectly smooth surface like store bought china has... and that gave me a connection back to her.....like a blind man reading brail or a face with his hands.... ya know...
So you need to find that special something of hers that will give you that kind of connected feeling.
You'll carry her love for you in your heart always...
and that my friend will help heal you over time.
My condolences Fred.
EarnedStripes44 09-12-2008, 08:18 AM My condolences
GattaFish 09-12-2008, 08:30 AM BBJ... It is an honor that you turn to everyone here whether they are close friends or just an acquaintance for support.
My sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mom.
Squid kids Dad 09-12-2008, 08:42 AM Fred, Sorry for your loss..Cherish the memories
fishbones 09-12-2008, 09:07 AM Condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mother. From reading your post, I can tell she was a very special person. Once you get past this tough part now, you'll be able to look back with many fond memories.
reelecstasy 09-12-2008, 09:12 AM I’m sorry for your loss.
May your mother rest in God’s peace.
Prayers for and condolences to you, your family, and your mother’s friends.
May Our Heavenly Father grant you peace in your heart and permit you to remember her with joy always, for the privilege of having had one so dear.
Jimbo 09-12-2008, 09:13 AM Very sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts, prayers and condolences to your family.
jim sylvester 09-12-2008, 09:17 AM sorry for your loss
sounds like you were very proud to be a son of hers
memories will last a lifetime
eastendlu 09-12-2008, 09:22 AM My condolences Fred you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.Life is a journey not a destination and your Mom must of had one good trip and must have enjoyed the ride from what you described.Hang in there and if you need to talk or anything give me a call.
stripercrazy 09-12-2008, 09:36 AM my thoughts and prayers to your family....ed
justplugit 09-12-2008, 10:41 AM Thoughts and prayers for srength and peace for you and your family, Fred.
Having known what kind of man you are, your Mom did a great job,
and from my experience of both my parents passing,your Mom still will. :)
InTheHole 09-12-2008, 11:25 AM Please accept my condolences and prayers to you and your family.
Mike P 09-12-2008, 12:03 PM Sorry to hear it, Fred. Our condolences.
Mike and Christine
RIJIMMY 09-12-2008, 12:50 PM my thoughts go out to you and your family.
UserRemoved1 09-12-2008, 05:03 PM My thoughts and sincerest prayers for you and your family Fred :(
Fred, Sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Though losing a parent is tough, time will help to heal. When the thoughts get you down try remembering some of the good times you had through the years with family.
vineyardblues 09-12-2008, 06:27 PM Fred, Sorry to hear about your loss.
Regards
VB
ProfessorM 09-12-2008, 06:30 PM Sorry for your loss Fred . My condolences to you and your family.
Striperknight 09-12-2008, 06:44 PM Fred,
Sorry to hear your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
gone fishin 09-12-2008, 10:34 PM Fred sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. She had to be special to have such a thoughtful son!
nightfighter 09-12-2008, 10:56 PM Fred,
As the oldest son, I pray that the words and actions come easily to you as you gather your family for your Mom's services. You will be looked to for comfort, hugs, and guidance in this family time of grieving and celebration of her life. Best wishes in this difficult time.
Swimmer 09-13-2008, 08:30 AM Fred my condolences also. Your loving tribute is her reward as a mother. It shows just how great a job she did raising her kids.
Backbeach Jake 09-13-2008, 07:07 PM I'd like to thank you all for the very kind and comforting words and wishes. I have drawn from your strength and it has been a huge help. I feel blessed to belong to this little community of wonderful people.
Thanks
Fred
l.i.fish.in.vt 09-13-2008, 07:58 PM Fred, sorry to hear this.my she rest in peace John
Fred -
Your mom was blessed to have a son who cared so much for her. My deepest sympathies to you and all touched by your mom. May she rest in peace.
mekcotuit 09-15-2008, 01:23 PM Thoughts and prayers to all your family.
OLD GOAT 09-15-2008, 02:40 PM So sorry for your loss.
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