a married man can hear: I have no feelings for you anymore.

My marriage of 13+ years is over and I'm pretty distraught. We've been together for 17+ years and the words "I just don't love you anymore" are the toughest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life. I still have strong feelings for her, but it's just not working. We've done counseling etc.. but it's just not there for her. I'm sure it will get easier, but goddamn it hurts right now. :crying:

Sorry to hear that, in the last 3 years i've seen alot of friends getting divorced its tough ecspecially with kids.Good luck.

Love is a Verb. Not a noun. It's the act. It's doing. It's not a thing.

Sorry to hear it.

sorry to hear...hang in there,gonna move this to Scuppers

Sorry. Believe in yourself. Draw strength from your kids' love. Don't doubt your own worth. Stay strong.

Sorry to hear this Dad818 it's a tough thing for sure.

Thats a shame Dad! Hang in there.....I know its got to be tough but better days are ahead my friend!;)

Ive been thru the same thing about 10 years ago after 20 years...I love you but ..I will pm you

now that your there, and have accepted the fact...

design yourself a new life.... and start doing some

fun things alone....or with other friends to relieve stress.