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RIJIMMY
07-30-2009, 08:49 PM
After a 3+ yr fight with cancer, my Mom passed away this afternoon. Its just over 4 yrs ago I also lost my Dad. They were married for 44 years. My Mom was 65, always active, exericsed, ate right. The last 6 weeks or so we had been taking care of her until a few weeks ago she moved into a hospice facililty, the nurses and doctors could not believe how strong she was, even though she was ready to go, her body kept going for days. My mom was a wonderful woman, she lived the live of a surfcasters wife and always supported my dad, they had a magical marriage. My best memories are sitting in the parking lot of Race Point in our 1974 ford van, eating portugese bread for breakfast. We camped every summer and had the greatest times. After my Dad died, she devoted herself to my kids and was a wonderful grandmother. I am worn out from the last few weeks and glad my Mom died peacfully. She will be missed every day.
Remember to take time to be with people you love, it goes by way to fast. And be sure to get check ups, if my parent's cancer was caught early enough they may be around today.

Slingah
07-30-2009, 08:52 PM
sorry for you loss Jimmy....she sure sounds like a great mom...
Peace,
Matt S.

BigFish
07-30-2009, 08:55 PM
Jimmy....it sounds as if you said it all. Your Mom sounds like she was everything anyone would ever want in a Mom.....and you were quite fortunate. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. As I always tell people....keep the great memories close to your heart and they will get you through the difficult time. Hoping your Mom has found peace.

BF

ProfessorM
07-30-2009, 09:02 PM
So sorry for your loss Jimmy. Thoughts and prayers for your mom , you , and your family.

Backbeach Jake
07-30-2009, 09:05 PM
I'm sorry for your loss Jimmy. Your Mother sounds a lot like my own, who I lost last Sept. It's tough but will pass. Remember her strength fondly, that helps

Raider Ronnie
07-30-2009, 09:22 PM
Very sorry for your loss Jimmy

Katie
07-30-2009, 09:25 PM
Terribly sorry for your loss!! Wish all the best for you and your family

Moses
07-30-2009, 09:29 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss.

striperman36
07-30-2009, 09:35 PM
My sympathies Jim. My MIL and FIL both passed within 90 days of each other in 2006.
Take the time to be with your friends and family as life is too short and a one way street into the future to not do so.

Redsoxticket
07-30-2009, 09:51 PM
My condolences to you and all of your family in the loss of your mom
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Clammer
07-30-2009, 10:11 PM
Jim ,
I,M truly sorry for the loss of your MOM . But ya know where ever she is its a better place than where she was .
I feel for your family But I really hope the grandkids are OK .
I,m so glad you have great memories ;

Leave your rods at home take a nite ride in the boat .. then just drift under the stars ..

As Always >.lets E N J O Y what we have >>today

MIKE

Crafty Angler
07-30-2009, 10:18 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss, Jimmy - I lost my mom in the very same way shortly after my Dad passed away

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, may God give you peace and comfort

fishbones
07-30-2009, 10:55 PM
Thoughts and prayers to you all. As tough as things are right now, they'll get easier with time. The sadness will fade and the wonderful memories will take it's place to be cherished forever. It sounds like your mom was a wonderful woman who brought lots of joy to those around her and instilled a real sense of family in you. I'm sure she was very proud of raising such a fine son.

Whenever you feel up to getting out and wetting a line, or if you want to grab a beer, give me a call.

jake
07-30-2009, 11:10 PM
Jim; Very sorry for your loss.

JohnnyD
07-30-2009, 11:12 PM
Jimmy,

My deepest and most sincere thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Your story is a reminder for me to strive to be as caring and thoughtful as possible for those around us whom we love.

The depth of appreciation and love you demonstrate for your mother is incredible.

TheSpecialist
07-31-2009, 12:09 AM
Jim sorry to hear about your mom.

UserRemoved1
07-31-2009, 04:43 AM
Sorry for your loss RIJIM. T&P with you.

Raven
07-31-2009, 04:59 AM
I'm truly sorry for your loss Jim.....

thankfully you are imprinted with many memories
that will filter to the surface over time
giving you much comfort in the future.

You Have a part of your mom within you...

The Dad Fisherman
07-31-2009, 05:38 AM
Jimmy, Very Sorry to hear of your loss.

RIROCKHOUND
07-31-2009, 06:30 AM
Jim,.
Very sorry to hear that, but I know she fought the good fight.

My offer stands, when you need some distraction, give me a call and we'll go chase some bass or fluke!

spence
07-31-2009, 06:38 AM
Sorry to hear that Jimmy...

-spence

Fishpart
07-31-2009, 06:41 AM
T&P, souinds like you had some good times. Now it is time to be there for your kids, they won't say it but they will be missing your Mom the most.

JohnR
07-31-2009, 07:01 AM
Jimmy - very sorry to hear this news. Thoughts and prayers for your mom, you, and all of the family. She sure sounded like a great lady and she is now back with your dad.

HESH2
07-31-2009, 07:04 AM
very sorry for your lost she was a very special person.my t&p are with you and family.

Joe
07-31-2009, 07:32 AM
My condolences, Jim...

FishermanTim
07-31-2009, 08:53 AM
Sorry to hear.
T&P

gone fishin
07-31-2009, 09:05 AM
Sorry for your loss Jim. T&P

Bronko
07-31-2009, 09:07 AM
Sorry to hear this Jimmy. Hang in there, it sounds like you had a great mother. Cherish the memories.

jimmy z
07-31-2009, 09:38 AM
I am truly sorry to hear of your loss, my friend. I too lost mom, a few years back. When I'm out on the rocks at night, I think of her often. I truly miss my mom, as well. I know, from what you posted that she is home with our Father.
I will pray for you and your family in this time of sorrow. Be strong my friend, and God bless you.

justplugit
07-31-2009, 09:44 AM
Jimmy, T+P will continue for you and your family.

spinncognito
07-31-2009, 10:02 AM
so sorry for your loss, T's & P's

Travis
07-31-2009, 10:39 AM
I too am very sorry for your loss. Cancer is ugly.

vineyardblues
07-31-2009, 11:25 AM
I am so sorry to read this thread.
I lost both of mine in the 80's

Regards
VB

Mr. Sandman
07-31-2009, 12:09 PM
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I can relate to your loss.

wader-dad
07-31-2009, 12:23 PM
May the best memories of your Mother be a blessing to you and your family. I pray that we can solve cancer in our lifetimes.

LT. DAN 2
07-31-2009, 01:17 PM
Sorry for your loss..thoughts and prayers sent your way.

jim sylvester
07-31-2009, 02:13 PM
my condolences to you and your family jim

Bocephus
07-31-2009, 02:30 PM
sorry to hear about that its always hurts to see a loved one go, especially your Mom. But she is in a better place now, and back with your Dad Condolences to you and youre family.

tattoobob
07-31-2009, 03:13 PM
Sorry to hear this Jimmy, spending time with loved ones is priceless

Slipknot
07-31-2009, 04:23 PM
Sorry for your loss Jimmy :(

You are right about taking the time to be with the ones you love. Live life to the fullest cause you never know.

MAC
07-31-2009, 04:27 PM
Jimmy, My condolences to you and your family.

Cool Beans
07-31-2009, 05:21 PM
That is so sad, Jimmy.. My Dad has been going through chemo for inoperable liver cancer for the past year or so, and we try to prepare ourselves for that eventual call, that we know is coming.... I know I won't be ready for that call.... God Bless you Brother!

Need anything or want a fishing buddy over the weekend, give me a call.

P.S.- I said a prayer for your family and asked God to give you a 50# this year to help you through your grief. Also, asked to make sure Mom was there with him when he puts that fish on your line, so she can watch her Son catch a big one. I'm sure she is, and always will be, proud of you.

tynan19
07-31-2009, 07:29 PM
Jimmy, sorry for your loss. My family sends our condolences.

Back Beach
08-01-2009, 07:24 AM
Sorry to hear the news Jim. My condolences to you and your family.

ThrowingTimber
08-01-2009, 08:19 AM
My condolences to you and your family Jim

Saltheart
08-01-2009, 12:12 PM
Sorry for your loss Jimmy.

numbskull
08-01-2009, 06:43 PM
The hole in your heart must be huge. I'm sorry.

Flaptail
08-01-2009, 10:19 PM
Sorry to hear that, my sympathies to you and your family.

fumifish
08-01-2009, 10:26 PM
my condolences to you and your family... :(

Swimmer
08-02-2009, 08:58 PM
My condolences Jimmy.

RIJIMMY
08-04-2009, 02:30 PM
Thanks for all the kind words. We laid mom to rest today, we had a nice wake yesterday and today went well. I did the eulogy and was able to say all the things I needed to. This has been a long, long road.

BigFish
08-04-2009, 02:57 PM
Been thinking of you Jimmy. Glad all went well. To give a eulogy....man you must be some kind of composed......I could not do it. Good for you.

Tagger
08-04-2009, 03:44 PM
sorry for your Loss Jimmy .. T&P's

The Iceman 6
08-05-2009, 07:53 AM
Sorry for you loss Jimmy. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Great writeup about your parents btw.

JohnR
08-05-2009, 08:06 AM
I am glad you were able to say what you wanted to say. I had to do the same with my father and I was not able to make it through well. It is very hard.

mekcotuit
08-06-2009, 08:55 AM
Sorry about your Mom. My mom passed away on June 26 - cancer also. My dad died two years ago on June 27 so it was almost like she was waiting for his anniversary. Every day I miss her. My thoughts are with you and your family. Time heals all.....