it's synchronization too ....if you step in a hole going under just as you exhaled or were about to inhale ...and in a blink of an eye, your choking on water because of bad timing....

then your in a real struggle for your life and you don't always win.
this is so different than how HAB'S and Flaptail left us...
they were not fishing at the time....

so i feel more bewildered by this
having a hard time wrapping my head around it
just shaking my head in....disbelief ....kinda...

i remain stunned....

I'm going to bump this thread up. On Christmas Eve that year, Red Top had an open house, as they did every year until recently. When I pulled in, I was floored to see Bob's truck parked outside, in the same spot he always parked in. Mary had driven it there. I've fallen out of touch with her. I hope she's doing well.