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justplugit 05-07-2009 08:24 PM

Prayers needed-
 
A friend of the family, Sydney's son, Johanathan, commited suicide after having
an arguement with his Dad.

His Dad is so distraught he hasn't been able to return home to his house since the incident.

His feelings of loss and guilt are overwhelming. I can't even imagine how he must feel.

Thanks
dave

Duke41 05-07-2009 09:29 PM

brutal just brutal

JohnR 05-07-2009 09:32 PM

Bad news Dave - T&P

BigFish 05-07-2009 09:45 PM

That is just terrible Dave. Breaks my heart to hear news like that. Prayers out to the family.

Raven 05-08-2009 04:53 AM

so sorry to hear
 
peoples mental health can be
so underestimated

Thoughts and Prayers sent to your friend.

buckman 05-08-2009 06:21 AM

Very sad news Dave. My prayers go out to the family. Just tragic.

Saltheart 05-08-2009 09:22 AM

What a shame. Got to be the worst way to lose a child. Prayers for the family.

RIJIMMY 05-08-2009 09:44 AM

man, thats awful, t and p sent

gone fishin 05-08-2009 11:10 AM

From one who has been through this -- he has to seek professional help as soon as possible. I lost a grandson the same way a few years ago. Most important to get to a professional.

Prayers sent for the family.

FishermanTim 05-08-2009 11:10 AM

The father is going to carry this "guilt" around like a ox yoke, unless he eventually realizes that his son had underlying issues that the father may not have any knowledge of, or could do nothing about.
The argument just happened to be the final straw. It could have easily been anyone or anything else that may have triggered his demise.
If arguing with parents were to cause that much grief, we'd all have been basket cases in our own times.
I feel bad for the father, because no parent should outlive their children. It's just not right.
Unfortunately, there are some people that either can't be saved, or can't be reached in time to avoid these tragedies.
My prayers go out to the family.

InTheHole 05-08-2009 11:43 AM

I can't even imagine the grief, Thoughts & Prayers

ProfessorM 05-08-2009 03:19 PM

T&P for your friend Dave. Sad story. If you get some time give me a call sometime. Long time no hear.

Nebe 05-08-2009 03:50 PM

wow. that is incredibly sad.. I cant imagine... :(

jimmy z 05-08-2009 04:41 PM

That is very, very sad news. As a dad, I can't imagine how the father must be feeling. I hope he will be ok. I will pray for peace. That the family would be well.Very sad indeed.

afterhours 05-08-2009 05:27 PM

wow that's so sad...my heart goes out to the dad and his family, T's &P's...

Adam_777 05-08-2009 05:35 PM

Truly sad news.I hope he is a strong man.Condolences to the family.

Slipknot 05-08-2009 05:38 PM

Wow Dave, I'm so sorry to hear that. :( He is going to need lots of support, I can't imagine how he feels. He's in our prayers.

tynan19 05-08-2009 06:03 PM

Deepest condolences to your friend's family. I can't even imagine what he is going through.

Clammer 05-08-2009 06:19 PM

DAVE;

Just my P & T .. for this tragaty [sp]


MIKE

5/0 05-08-2009 08:21 PM

Wow,Im so sorry to hear of such an unspeackable act to fall on a Family.This is very bad new's.......My family & I reach out and send our deepest condolences,
many Thoughts & Prayers going to him & his family this Sunday and many more to follow........


Bob

justplugit 05-08-2009 09:45 PM

Thanks to all for your P+T, i really appreciate it.

You guys are The Best.

I will tell him at the memorial service of your sincere concerns and prayers.

Hope it will help him not to feel so alone.

Backbeach Jake 05-08-2009 09:56 PM

Horribly heartbreaking. You never know what 's in someone's head and very little you can do about it, my thoughts and prayers for both....

OLD GOAT 05-08-2009 11:27 PM

so sorry for your loss. stay close to his dad,don,t leave him alone he will need your help. been there, it will take along time

HESH2 05-09-2009 06:42 AM

just terrible news dave t&p for you friend.so sad

Slingah 05-09-2009 04:36 PM

thoughts & prayers sent Dave....

Swimmer 05-10-2009 07:28 PM

Been there, no easy answer. My condolences.


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