Years ago I golfed a minimum of three days a week and fished here and there. I wasn' t being true to myself, and my wife hated me doing both, plus working a couple of double shifts a week put an extraordinary strain on our marriage. My wife worked nights and some weekends in a hospital. So we had more and more talks about it, and one of the few times I actually understood what she meant and wanted without spelling it out in black and white I made the decision to pursue fishing, (because I was being pretty selfish), and I have built on that ever since.
Bev is pretty tough to deal with sometimes(very strong sure person), but she makes all the meals, and within reason I get to pursue my passion twelve months a year. I am a cerftified, bonified, recreational saltwalter fisherman with everything that entails.
I am sorry your relationship collapsed. My brother says that coming home to an empty house sucks. I rather fish less and come home to my girl rather than face that empty house. Peace.
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That being said, if the bass are hitting I can go as much as my body can handle.
Plus I fish the Vineyard every year for two weeks, plus I have been married thirty-seven years.
Last edited by Swimmer; 08-31-2013 at 07:02 AM..
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