Chris - give the girls a Happy Birthday from all of us. It will no doubt please her that the "bride" behind S-B will also be celebrating a BirthDay tomorrow too.
When I had to change the plans from Oct 4th for having the leg (I had a wedding to go to) my wife told me to schedule it on the 11th - her B-Day. So either she is fooling around with someone she'd rather celebrate with

or our mutual love has no bounds and she can get rid of me for a day & relax ....
Stroth - just bring something, from cookies to condiments to paper plates to roast duck (we had Duck @ the Mass Leg

). PLugs can be substituted for food too!