I'm not sure to what extent your fishing is causing problems with your marriage - it's hard to pick up subtle humor through text, but my advice is: don't screw up your personal life over fishing.
People who start out and then find that they really like the sport tend to go way too much.
Find out what the best condition set for the places you fish is and concentrate your time when the odds are best.
Early season fever strikes before the fish arrive - chill out until there is a chance for a good fish.....no point in pissing off your significant other and getting skunked to boot.
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