Dude, those "no fishing cards" are OUT OF THE QUESTION! Way to radical for me. How could you do that to yourself? This is why you don't connect with the big ones! You need to go when they are there...no excuses....If she pulled out a "do not fish card" and the was a big blitz the night prior...I don't think I could live with myself. You would read in the paper the next day "Fisherman slashes his wrist and kills himself with a Bernzy plug while at home after hearing about a record fish being landed that same night"
I was thinking more like a fancy dinner and maybe a gift certificate at clothing or shoe store or something .