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Old 07-06-2004, 10:37 PM   #12
MikeTLive
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actually, not sarcasm.
its how some kids end up getting abused.

it is not intentional

cant go fishing guys. I have to wathc the baby.
cant go drinking. Have a baby.
cant watch th superbowl here... baby.
baby baby baby.

after a while, if you have not already worked out how you will share time away from the baby you run the risk ofe developing a resentment.

This is very common and not something that is easily noticed.
it develops slowly. after 9 months of the little pooper taking up all of your previously free time you will see.

My boys are now 15.5 and 13.5
There was a long stretch where I had no time for myself.
It is very important that you plan it out before you need it.
that way it is fair for both of you.

no sarcasm just reality for- many people.
not all, and perhapse not most.
been there done that. communication is key.
if you have a problem discuss it.

I have been with my wife 17 years.
We have yet to have even a shouting match.
My older boy got honor roll.
My youger boy has done so too.
Proud Papa? You bet!!

There is a fine line that seperates a fisherman from a fool standing in water swinging a stick.

will cook for food
...and plugs
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