Cal, that sucks. Do what Spence said. Keep self restraint no matter how bad it gets. The boyz in the lock up can condone a lot of #^&#^&#^&#^& but when it comes to someone playin' around with little kids they deal out thier own justice and the guards usually look the other way. Most of them hardcore guys were abused themselves and when they can get thier hands on someone like your ex's boyfriend he is going to live in fear for the rest of his days never mind walking funny for the rest of his life too. Good luck and be strong.
