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You know the old saying that a woman will try to change you into her vision of the perfect mate, then dump you for a guy that is exactly the way you WERE.
example:
A friend of mine (years ago) dated a psycho that wanted him to dress the yuppie part. You know, the Izod shirts, brand name right down to his skivvies. That was doomed from the start.
His keeper:
The gal he finally married (after about 15 yrs of dating, I kid you not) is a definite keeper. She likes sports, has a great personality, is a real "looker" and doesn't take crap from anyone.
If there was any "changing" done with thir relationship, it was him getting her to be more assertive when she knew she was right, instead of giving in.
They are, and will be a great couple for as long as I can see.
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