[MikeTLive]

I am going to Nantucket tomorrow, returning Tuesday, to attend a wake and memorial service for my new uncle Clay.

Last year at at about this time I was there for his wedding to my aunt. She was never happier that I can remember.

Clay was a wonderful man. He clearly cared deeply for her. He is already being missed.

I dont know why I am writing this. I guess I am just sort of in shock too. Part because she has been through so much over the years and to have this happen now is like a kick in the head.