Ahhh, U will find out, I am sure... while it's not too painful to be outfished by your son, it does smack a little when your done in by your daughter... but only for a second. I think the coolest thing was when she was putting worms on a little boys hook for him last spring, he wouldn't touch them, cause they were slimy... she had ta help him get the perch he caught off too....
Freak, enjoy them, all the best is in front of you!