I thought I was in pain alone...guess not.
I have to say that the extreme pain in my sholder went away mostly when I got lighter gear. If you use old heavy stuff you will have less pain in your back-sholder-neck area.
That said my hand was "falling asleep" this year but I think it might have been from that aquaskinz jacket and its snug fit.
Bottom line...I need to loose some weight (after the holidays of course

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