As someone who has experienced first hand the trauma that comes after a visit by a military notification team my heart is breaking for them. A knock on the door at any hour of the day or night when a loved one is somewhere off in harms way changes your life forever in an instant. God bless him and his family and may they find the strength to get through this initial shock and may they find a way to bear the pain that will be with them each and every day for the rest of thier lives.
