http://www.shalimar-resort.com/
http://www.wolfeboroinn.com/
Both are nice places on opposite sides of the lake and both ain't cheap.
Kids....don't know.
http://channelcottages.com/
Insanely good but I don't think Jose is open this time year.Great spot though.
The NASWA is also nice but not sure if they're open this time of year either.
http://www.naswa.com/