Let's see -- You would like to really be the boss with the boy-kids. BUT they are the wifes kids and they will often remind you that they don't have to listen to you. You don't come down on them because they are your wifes children and you don't want to piss her off?? I bet you didn't legally adopt them either.
Sometimes it isn't easy to get tough with him because you not only have to listen to his crap, but will have a problem with the old lady also. I think I have witnessed this problem before. Sounds just like my sons situation.
I had an incident on the race with my son's wifes son. We had a tire spin off the rim and when jacking the rig and getting ready to change the tire, I asked the boy to grab the shovel and start digging the sand away from the tire. He mumbled something and started to walk away..I grabbed him by the back of the neck and put the shovel in his hand telling him to dig or face the music. He dug, and his mother was pissed. Don't forget that you don't get between the tiger and her cub! I feel for ya guy.
