[Clammer]

The sudden passing of john this week shocked many in the fishing community . but also as friends everywhere as well '
Reading the posts & stories makes you think >> but going to the services & seeing {[JOHN}} his friends & family / the photos / the pain /tears / the turning and walking away from John,s final physical resting place ; takes you to another level of thought & reflection Yes the pain is truly there for those that were [REALLY} close to John & his family ;
I have noticed that a couple of posts referred to my {ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE} ... For the people on the site that know me personally & not the CLAMMER on S-B>COM .>>> I didn,t [CUM up with that saying . because it sounded good ;;
all the phases that are said by people ;;

Stop & smell the roses:;
let bygones be bygones ::
Sraighten it out later;
Another time;
F $%^&* Um :
Next Year :
There,s always tomorrow :;
Can,t take it with ya ::

AND many more phrases that I can,t remember or don,t know ::

throw them out the window & think deep & hard .. Enjoy what you have .. no matter matter how much you wanna or feel >.POOR ME > There are many people worse off & would gladly change places with you if they could ;;

one of the best ones is don,t save for tomorrow what you can do today >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO true //
if something tragic happens .. this could eat at you the rest of your life;
if you were gonna fix the screen today & you have time ..do it ;;
same with the oil change ;;
ya son wants to play catch right now /but ya getting you gear ready for the tide > at least throw a few with him ;;
take a few minutes to really listen to your daughter when she tries to explain why this is the dress that Bobbie is wearing today ;;
give your loved one a hug .for REALLY no reason ;
bring home a single rose & have it in a vase on the table for ..no reason ..not after ya in the s ^&*

Just tell people you love .you {LOVE] them /don,t wait til a special day or time ;;

take your special person to a place they like /Not were you like ;;

watch the cooking show instead of that movie you have been waiting too see ;;

Please people / ya don,t wanna say or feel you have the SHUDDA,s &&&&&& they are in part . I sudda played catch ; I shudda taken her to the flower show ;; I SHUDDA stayed home friday nite ;;
I SHUDDa said [[I<M SORRY}
I Shudda let it slide ;;
I Shudda buried the hatchet :
I shudda hug you & told ya how much ya meant to me ;;



>>>>>>>>>> Ya don,t wanna say its TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO late >>>> they passed last nite ;;

I just had to say this from a guy who has had [is[ on both sides ;;;
One side makes the loss easier /cuz I have no SHUDDA.S & the other side struggl

es at times because its too late ;;

I guess this also a good as time as any to apologize to anyone on this site that I have [Hurt] by my words or actions /
not pissed off .. that will always happen .. but I never intentionally try & hurt someone personally ; I know at times I push past the G/P button & if i,ve offended anyone >.I,m truly sorry >> But also that may happen again .because that,s me >> and if your gonna take people for who they are > ya get the good with the bad . oooooooooooooooor you have the option on changing the channel ;;
IT Closing >>>>> take it in deep >>> don,t let it go to I SHUDDA::
Thanks for the call last nite Bill , it was REALLY great to see you :::

Thanks for listening MIKE