Notaro - he is no longer allowed to post here. He has had several chances.
As for how to fish & what to use, we'll probably have a few get togethers this year and I recommend you join us on one. Probably the best thing to do. I can honestly say that I may not be the best teacher. Fact is, I think everyone can be their own best teacher. Pick a couple areas of interest and stick with them for a couple years. Trying to do too much too quick will probably cause only frustration...
Tattoo - what time does he go to bed? The best thing I can recommend is going thryu the pain of letting him put himself back down & to sleep. My wife will happily admit that I'm the first one to go in to try to get him to sleep but that just means that he'll expect me to go in when he cries. She makes me stay in bed (unless he's sick) so he'll get used to putting himself down - otherwise there is no sleep regardless of what you do. I'm perpetually exhausted now
