I'm sorry for your loss and have gone both routes only because I was told it's against the law to bury them in your yard. I still prefer to bury them were they lived and let them become part of the land where they belonged. I did spread the ashes around the yard after which helped me heal. I try and look at death as the end of physical being and the beginning of spiritual being, where although the physical connection is gone the soul is now free to go on without the limitations associated with the physical being/body.
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