[Raven]

MJ....its the little things you take for granted (ie thinking their easy or relying on memory) so its best Always to label everything with the white first aid tape writing what each is. Something i learned the Hard way. Also what i do now...is to make sketches
of how everything looks and soon i'll digitally photograph anything
before i take it apart. That when way you get stuck your not going; "oh shoot , how'd they go again" ...especially if its suddenly dinner time or there's some other distraction. Perhaps theres a dealer or a neighbor that has a similar setup like yours that you can go and copy, take notes and >>SEE>> your mistake.
Just a tip...i feel bad for ya and thought this MIGHT help .If not sorry if it sounded like a "i told ya so" comment. I've been there.