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04-01-2016, 02:24 AM
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Seal Control
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Caver, Ma.
Posts: 3,875
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My wife
Just to update, I have not said much But we have started to make arrangements and calling Hospice back in. She has been moved 5 time now back and fourth from the nursing home to the hosp. She is in Hosp now. They have made me the health care proxy as she is not with it. She is so thin and friel that they say if the have to try they are going to hurt her,So I have put the DNR in order today.
She was raching out today, I asked what you reaching for? she says the door, why?? "I am going out" were? I am going with my sister Karen ( she died the week before xmas) as I sat in tears I said its ok to go! She said open the door for me, I said you have to do it your self. She tryed for about 20 min then stoppe
So if I disappear for a bit you will know why, my kids (my son mostly) are taking it very hard!!!! He wants her to stay long enough to see his new son which is due in 2 weeks, Have no idea if its going to happen?? Ok I am crying now talk soon
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"All my friends are Flakes!!"
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04-01-2016, 05:49 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Ashland, Mass.
Posts: 596
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I am so sorry for all you are going through JOE, you certainly have had a rough road. Continue to be strong, and lean on your family when you need them. We are sending T's & P's to you both.
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04-01-2016, 06:07 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Cape Cod
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Joe, you're in my prayers
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04-01-2016, 06:25 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2002
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Joe,the most important thing is that you are there to comfort her. Make sure she sees you smile.
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04-01-2016, 06:31 AM
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Red Eye Jedi
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: East Facing
Posts: 4,374
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Saying a prayer for you and your family. All the best.
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04-01-2016, 07:04 AM
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Certifiable Intertidal Anguiologist
Join Date: Feb 2000
Location: Somewhere between OOB & west of Watch Hill
Posts: 35,270
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So very sorry to hear, Joe. Our thoughts and Prayers for you and your family.
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~Fix the Bait~ ~Pogies Forever~
Striped Bass Fishing - All Stripers
Kobayashi Maru Election - there is no way to win.
Apocalypse is Coming:
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04-01-2016, 07:31 AM
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My brother is bald
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Parts Unknown
Posts: 4,516
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Sorry for the news. We will all be praying for you.
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seals + plovers =
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04-01-2016, 07:42 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Newtown, CT
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So sorry to hear. Be strong for her. I went through something similar about 2 year ago, I know its tough.
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04-01-2016, 07:43 AM
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Ledge Runner Baits
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: I live in a house, but my soul is at sea.
Posts: 8,615
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Quote:
Originally Posted by macojoe
Just to update, I have not said much But we have started to make arrangements and calling Hospice back in. She has been moved 5 time now back and fourth from the nursing home to the hosp. She is in Hosp now. They have made me the health care proxy as she is not with it. She is so thin and friel that they say if the have to try they are going to hurt her,So I have put the DNR in order today.
She was raching out today, I asked what you reaching for? she says the door, why?? "I am going out" were? I am going with my sister Karen ( she died the week before xmas) as I sat in tears I said its ok to go! She said open the door for me, I said you have to do it your self. She tryed for about 20 min then stoppe
So if I disappear for a bit you will know why, my kids (my son mostly) are taking it very hard!!!! He wants her to stay long enough to see his new son which is due in 2 weeks, Have no idea if its going to happen?? Ok I am crying now talk soon
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My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what it's like to have your partner ask that question of you, but having watched my mother hold on for days until we could reach out to my brother and put the phone to her ear, sometimes it's that one little thing on her to do list before she is ready that will keep her hanging on. Its so hard to watch any loved one go through this, eat well and get some rest when you can, you have all of our support of course.
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04-01-2016, 08:07 AM
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Super Moderator
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Middleboro MA
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Sorry to hear this Joe, our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Do you best to be strong.
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1984 was a warning, not a guidebook!
It's time more people spoke up with the truth. Every time we let a leftist lie go uncorrected, the commies get stronger.
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04-01-2016, 07:18 PM
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Afterhours Custom Plugs
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: R.I.
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T's & P's .
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04-01-2016, 09:03 PM
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"Fishbucket"
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Bahston Hahbah
Posts: 6,588
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Hang in there Joe
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04-02-2016, 06:44 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: East Prov RI
Posts: 1,501
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T&P's sent Joe
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04-02-2016, 06:49 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Cumberland, RI
Posts: 2,264
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My thoughts are with you.
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04-02-2016, 07:03 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: On my boat
Posts: 9,703
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God bless
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04-02-2016, 07:26 AM
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BigFish Bait Co.
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Hanover
Posts: 23,392
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So sorry Joe....I can't imagine. Stay strong.
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Almost time to get our fish on!!! 
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04-02-2016, 12:02 PM
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Boat by Day Surf by Night
Join Date: Dec 2000
Location: North Granby, CT
Posts: 301
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Thoughts and prays for you and your family. The thing that I was glad I did was to bring all my wife's and my family in for closure. There were many magical moments right to the end.
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04-02-2016, 04:04 PM
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Uncle Remus
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Lakeville Ma.
Posts: 14,773
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So sorry to hear this Joe. I can't imagine what you have endured the last few years. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
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"A beach is a place where a man can feel he's the only soul in the world that's real"
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04-02-2016, 05:25 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: RI
Posts: 21,463
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Been dealing with a lot of end of life issues the past 6 months and there's no way around it...it just sucks. Stay strong and be the best husband you can be...your kids will remember this for their entire lives.
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04-02-2016, 07:07 PM
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Eels
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Cape Cod,MA.
Posts: 3,333
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God bless and God speed Joe!
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04-03-2016, 06:43 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: Burnt Hills, New York
Posts: 257
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Hey Joe, I don't know you but wish to let you know that there is another person out there that has kind thoughts for you and your wife. I agree totally with Sea Dangles, let her see you smile and remind her that you you will are and will always be together. Make her laugh....
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04-04-2016, 09:30 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: in a structure with a roof
Posts: 6,049
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Joe
Im so sorry to hear about you and wifes struggles the last few years . Its terrible you and her have had to bare so much pain and misery . More than anyone should have too . Show her the way and continue to love and cherish her .
My Mom sends her best and is praying for your family . As am I
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04-05-2016, 08:08 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 20,441
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Hope you can feel the positive thoughts and prayers that are being sent your way.
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04-05-2016, 07:51 PM
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Seal Control
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Caver, Ma.
Posts: 3,875
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Ok today was a hell of a day!! As a family my kids have broken down and emoations ran wild! Things were said that should have never been said, But in the end we all hugged and went are way.
Doc came in and said that the seatives have been off since yesterday, she is still hooked up to the machines but they are turned off, and she is maintaing her B/P, and breating on her own! But she will not wake up?? and she needs to be awake to pull the tube so she can cough all the crap out. Tomorrow will be 72 hours and she should be awake? they say they see this in mostly older people but she is young. Might be all the brain damage from all the low blood sugars??But the tube will come out tomorrow and if all goes well great! If not the we go into comfort mode which is a morphine drip, and then she won't feel anything and will go to sleep and the pass in her sleep.
So there is another hard day coming tomorrow!! after missing dialysis I have to go tomorrow, even her doctor yelled at me for not going yesterday. So I will go and then drive there so they can do wht needs to be done, my daughter will come down and get me in a wheelchair cause I dont feel well after my treatment never mind mussing a day then going I am sure 8I will be wiped.
Thank You all for your thoughts and prays!!!!!!!!!!!Please contuniue!!
Joe
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"All my friends are Flakes!!"
BOATLESS
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04-05-2016, 09:04 PM
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BigFish Bait Co.
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Hanover
Posts: 23,392
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Hang tough Joe. I feel your pain man. Thoughts and prayers belong to you and your wife and family.
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Almost time to get our fish on!!!
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04-05-2016, 09:27 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Libtardia
Posts: 21,690
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Hang tough indeed. I'll be thinking of you and your wife stomorrow.
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04-06-2016, 07:27 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 86
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T & P. Wow, Just had to respond. Usually I just think about it and send them without adding to the thread but this was just too much. Just don't know what else to say.
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