My final thoughts on Eben's post

[Jamie M]

I did read the rest of the thread that Eben started, and I was surprised at how fast the thread turned into a "share secrets" vs "not sharing secrets" discussion.

First, I don't know how my post got misinterpreted as a jealous beginner who was bitter that more experienced fishermen wouldn't share info. If you read that post (or any of my other posts), you'll see that not once, ever, have I asked anyone a question that would EVEN COME CLOSE to spot burrning. If anyone can find a post of mine that asks for that kind of specific info, I'll write John R a check to cover this site's expenses for the next 10 years. Once, I posted a question asking why some of the more experienced fishermen get so defensive about even general questions. Again, I can see the logic in being tight-lipped about where you fish. But if I ask "do surface plugs work during the day at Watch Hill", I don't see the harm in getting an answer.

In any event, that wasn't even close to what my post was getting at. It's one thing to be tight-lipped. It's another thing entirely to deliberately lie to , or in any other way, sabotage someone else's fishing, just because they beat you to your favorite rock. And that's how I interpreted Eben's post. If you got to your favorite spot and found someone there, would you tell them that you saw the cops towing their car just to get them out of there? If so, then you are an a**hole, and that's all there is to it. But, it sound slike there was more to the story then a couple of guys innocently trying to fish. To the extent that I misjudged what he did, I apologize

Again, that was my interpretation of what he did, and as someone who is trying to learn more about this sport, I was insulted. I was also surprised at the "cutthroat" reaction to my thread, because to me, one of my favorite aspects of fishing is the affable, helpful, approach that most fishermen have.

Finally, to those who justified what Eben did because "only the strong survive" and "big fish eat little fish", well, I respectfully disagree with that macho garbage. Helping out others is one of the most rewarding things you can do. And given the great response by others on this site, every time someone is looking to raise money for a pal in need, I don't think I'm the only one who feels that way. That's truly a pathetic outlook.

[BigFish]

This BigFish swims with fish of all sizes....any questions regarding plugs.....glad to help!

[Skip N]

Wow, Eben involved in a fight on the board and i have nothing to do with it? I feel very left out.

[spence]

Originally Posted by Skip N

Wow, Eben involved in a fight on the board and i have nothing to do with it? I feel very left out.

You were too busy freaking out over harmless naked children



-spence

[BigFish]

[ThrowingTimber]

Sorry if I came across the wrong way.. I like to break stones...

[Skip N]

Originally Posted by spence

You were too busy freaking out over harmless naked children

-spence

I live to freak out over stuff...You don't know that by now?

[MrHunters]

wow, i didnt know there was all this drama going on. It just killed about 45 minutes at work and I thank you for that. Now in regards to this issue, when I first starting posting here (about 2 mos ago) I think my first post was HEY does anyone know of any good spots in or around Beverly??? Had no idea that was a no no. And even after the responses I got I still didnt know it was off limits to ask that question.

So basically I say, if anyone is willing to help and put up with my stupid questions Im more than grateful and will return the help in any way I can. Being a n00b, i dont think the ol timers (dont worry your only as young as you feel) are really all trying to help but in a way where they want you to figure it out. Secrets???? no.....guidance????? slightly..... Direct knowledge??? maybe after you buy a few cases of the truth syrum

Also, after reading what unfolded.... We are fishing right?? This is supposed to be for the most part a stress reducer is it not?? I try not to take myself too seriously so when I screw up I have an excuse

[chris L]

ask all you want ( its still America ) ! They dont have to answer if they dont want too .

anyone know where I can catch some fish ? Ive been fishing the toilet too much lately !

[MrHunters]

Originally Posted by chris L

ask all you want ( its still America ) ! They dont have to answer if they dont want too .

anyone know where I can catch some fish ? Ive been fishing the toilet too much lately !

wherever you see my jeep....just go anywhere else..... you will usually have some good luck that way

but if you want to stay...dont say i didnt warn you....I welcome company

[Nebe]

i got fish to catch

[The Dad Fisherman]

Originally Posted by Eben

i got fish to catch

But judging from your last few threads you've given up on every form of fishing except Harpoon and Shotgun.....Lock and Load.