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Old 04-12-2006, 11:43 PM   #1
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Hot For Teacher


This woman - a 28 yr old teacher, was caught in sexual relationship with a young boy.
There's been a bevy of bodacious beautiful blondes being bounced for bedding boys.
I wonder if double standard about this form of child molestation is based in part because people are in awe of any boy who can pull it off?
I'm not sure whether to pity the kid as victim, or ask him for tips.

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Old 04-13-2006, 12:18 AM   #2
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It must be lonely down in the garage surrounded by all them plugs...isn't it Joe?

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Old 04-13-2006, 12:25 AM   #3
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It must be lonely down in the garage surrounded by all them plugs...isn't it Joe?

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good one Spence

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Old 04-13-2006, 12:37 AM   #4
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I would ask him for tips, it the real world no boy over the age of 10 that got a crack at that would be upset at all. I know I wouldn't be. Boys are just different then girls, sounds biased, but hey it should.
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Old 04-13-2006, 12:38 AM   #5
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major double standard. Can you imagine if a 28 year old male teacher was having sex with a 14 year old girl? The guy would be locked up for life. But now when the roles are reversed, the female teachers get slaps on the wrist.
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Old 04-13-2006, 06:11 AM   #6
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major double standard. Can you imagine if a 28 year old male teacher was having sex with a 14 year old girl? The guy would be locked up for life. But now when the roles are reversed, the female teachers get slaps on the wrist.

Who cares .... she is hot. Better to have her out and available then in some Dike training center prison.

Did I say that

Many of them are getting jail time.... and there are double standards as for sentencing and responsibility.

If it happened to me when I was a kid I wouldn`t have felt abused but impowered

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Old 04-13-2006, 07:05 AM   #7
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Old 04-13-2006, 08:37 AM   #8
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It must be lonely down in the garage surrounded by all them plugs...isn't it Joe?

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Yes, it is lonely working with all the lures.

The famed NY photographer Diane Arbus killed herself in part because she found the art world and intellectual class to be populated by pretenders. She worked, and read, and studied, and became the real thing. She had what one biographer described as, "A rich intellectual life, and no one to share it with."

Now, I'm not going to kill myself for want of a decent conversation, but the relationships and the dialogue I shared with my colleagues when I worked outside the home were, shall we say, "less-than-rewarding."

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Old 04-13-2006, 08:59 AM   #9
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This woman - a 28 yr old teacher, was caught in sexual relationship with a young boy.
There's been a bevy of bodacious beautiful blondes being bounced for bedding boys.
I wonder if double standard about this form of child molestation is based in part because people are in awe of any boy who can pull it off?
I'm not sure whether to pity the kid as victim, or ask him for tips.
ANOTHER ONE?!!!

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Old 04-13-2006, 09:03 AM   #10
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Man I want to go back to school. You can't rape the willing.....
What if a 14 year old girl was "willing" to have sex with a Male teacher? Should that teacher get a slap on the wrist too? You know damn right he would get nailed with severe jail time....
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Old 04-13-2006, 09:05 AM   #11
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Now, I'm not going to kill myself for want of a decent conversation, but the relationships and the dialogue I shared with my colleagues when I worked outside the home were, shall we say, "less-than-rewarding."
I'll second this.
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Old 04-13-2006, 09:19 AM   #12
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Man I want to go back to school. You can't rape the willing.....
Uh, you're a cop, right?

They didn't run statutory rape by you in the academy?

These teachers don't know a lot about teenaged boys. Any 14 year old who's getting laid is gonna brag about it, and that goes double for a 14 year old who's getting laid by Teach

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Old 04-13-2006, 11:06 AM   #13
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Easy Matt--it was my lame attempt at humor.

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Old 04-13-2006, 11:23 AM   #14
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I deleted my responses before this got out of control. My apologies to those who were offended at my attempt at humor.

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Old 04-13-2006, 11:57 AM   #15
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No need Matt--it takes two to make a war, and if neither one wants one, there won't be a war. I keep forgetting how blank words on a page can be taken in a different way than how they were intended. I was just trying too hard to be cute I guess

Anyhow, the schoolies are in the rivers, the herring are in most of the runs, and I have a practice to get started. Hope to catch you and the Thomases at one of the legs this summer.

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Old 04-13-2006, 12:04 PM   #16
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How come they all look alike? Well except for the one that had the two kids with the minor then later got married.
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Old 04-13-2006, 12:46 PM   #17
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I had nuns for twelve years so so much for my imagination. And what is my truck doing in the background of that picture!!!!!!

Why even try.........
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Now she's in trouble for posting coded messages to him on her MySpace page
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Old 04-13-2006, 02:50 PM   #19
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You know what.
Yes it is a double standard, but I think it SHOULD be.
A 13 year old boy does not "suffer" the same psychological damage as a 13 year old girl. I think we are just hard wired differently.
The boy will grow up to brag about it, a girl would become a stripper and or even a drug addict. In her mind she is now damaged goods and acts out accordingly. This is just my opinion, but i believe it to be accurate.
Not to gross anyone out but when I was 13 I fantasized about every hot teacher in the school, and we had a couple of them,I remember them very "vividly" (pun intended)
Should she be punished, sure. But the damage done is not as severe as if this was some guy praying on girls.
Pretend your the father in these cases, which scenario would you react to. If it was my girl, you better hold me back with a gun, if it was my boy, I would have a long talk with him and thats about it,and then I would call my buds and say, "hey, youre never gonna guess whay little johnny did "
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Old 04-13-2006, 03:20 PM   #20
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Now explain your

Theories about manhood to all the 12-13 years boys touched by priests damaged for life how can anyone say a 13 year old boy being touched by his teacher is fine RAPE IS RAPE shes a skinner diddler piece of crap hell be old enough when she gets out in 7 years unless she converts to carpet well you know what I mean if she was dirt ugly you would all be talkin a different tune.
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Old 04-13-2006, 03:46 PM   #21
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Statuatory rape= ALL rape cases to you?
You need to read some law books.
Hetero sex = male priests touching young boys ??? are you freaking kidding me?
and where in my post did I say this was fine???????
I said PUNISH her, but I stated that >>>>the damage done is diff to a boy than a girl.<<<<
Was this a even a RAPE case???, from what I read it was a teacher getting "caught having sex with an underage boy". Did he run to the police or come home crying that he was molested? Was he physically hurt, bruised. I didnt read that anywhere.
You obviously know nothing about the definition of RAPE, and you are actually offending every woman that has truly been raped.

And take off the caps fella , im not shouting at you.


ps It might also interest you to know that the charges against Debra Lafave(the other hottie teacher with the 14 yr old boy) were DROPPED. Wonder why they would to such a thing? Perhaps cause there was no case?

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Old 04-13-2006, 03:49 PM   #22
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I'm not sure I agree, in a society where we are constantly subjected to women wanting equality, why a double standard should be applied to a woman endangering the welfare of a minor, versus a man. Rules is rules and they can work for ya or agin' ya. We just got through this situation in our new high school. (BTW-making light of situatiuons like these is one way a large part of the population deals with adversity. Leno and SNL do it all the time and it makes us laugh) Sort of a strange situation, there's only 9th and 10th graders right now and subsequent years' classes will eventually fill the school. But we had a 10th grade math teacher convicted of sexual abuse of a minor. His career and personal life are ruined. It was a 10th grade girl, she was a student and the only one he coached in girls cross country. They were never intimate, only exchanged email, which we don't know for sure, but everyone you talk to says the emails were with regard to his problems of intimacy with his wife. The girl's parents found the emails. He was forced to confess he kissed the girl once in their three month relationship. I have a daughter in 10th grade, she was his student, she and her friends think he was too straight laced and too good a teacher and the girl lied, but basically, he was over the line, and even if his kiss was on the forehead following a good race, he's $hitcanned for life. Talk about "oughta get a slap on the wrist." Even the local rag only described the exchange as email of a "romantic" nature. Sometimes I think we're too eager to take the side of the victim and blame.
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Some of you people are freakin warped you know that?

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read for yourself

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive...2teacher1.html
I dont care how you justify it its not right 28 year olds on 13 year old boys is wrong Statuatory rape is what they call it a crime you go to jail for it I dont know why your taking my opinion so personally its my opinion a mental sick twisted teacher put in a poition of authority and used it for gain face it shes a pedophile Predator who preys on the unsuspecting and then we have a majority who would be proud to have it done to there kid I could just puke at this thread Im done!!!
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I deleted my responses before this got out of control. My apologies to those who were offended at my attempt at humor.
No deletion required, the humor was clear.
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Old 04-13-2006, 06:28 PM   #28
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Some of you people are freakin warped you know that?

i agree.... lol but we both know in our minds, we could both be warped in our own ways..

for me... i have no comment on this subject..


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Old 04-13-2006, 08:00 PM   #29
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I think the teacher at the top of this thread is this one...

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/0208052teach1.html
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thanks for pointing that out GF2020

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,191729,00.html

more on the story
now shes facing 8 years in jail ?

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