They're at your house because they feel safe there. Calm down so they can feel safer. Just leave it be and keep the reefer stocked. You'll be proud of yourself later, trust me. My kids are grown and gone now, I'd love to be short a coupla waters.
He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty, he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself.
Thomas Paine