My best thoughts and prayers, Larry.
When I grew up the hospital staff knew me and my 3 brothers by our first names. We were always putting one another in the ER. Part of growing up that makes parents nuts. They'll both be fine and a little wiser.
He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty, he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself.
Thomas Paine