You are throwing a lot of towns in the mix, IMO. Given the size of your growing brood, have you considered which of those towns' school systems are best? Schools and your commute are two things I would have at the top of your list to consider. Ipswich has ocean access... but it also has greenheads galore. Talk to TDF about Georgetown. Flyrod can fill you in on school systems up that way. How long is you commute presently? Your main highway would shift from being 93 to 95/Route1. What do you think you can spend?
And given that you have always beotched about getting to fish, you better be moving closer to some access......
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