I'll tell you what it takes. It takes leaving a great paying job in the city and telling your wife to leave her's or stay but your moving to the Cape and basically throwing away a made future. It takes moving to where you know no one, except on the beach and those you could not rely on too heavily. Leaving half your combined income to go to work for a little better than minimum wage cause "hey, this is the Cape". It takes shorting the family budget ten to twenty bucks a week so you can get gas or a plug or some eels when you could be taking the wife and kid's out for pizza which would be a treat to them and you know it but still you do it. It means leaving your wife and kids at home with nothing to do while you are out surfcasting and enjoying yourself but subconciously knowing your screwing them. It means buying an impracticle 4 wheel drive that once the monthly payment goes in just gets you by on the mortagage, food and clothes. It means no
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