Fairhaven is just across the way from Scenic New Bedford, probably an extra 15 minutes drive for those of us that would have come from route 195 and less for most of our Mass brethern... I'll post directions to the VFW when I get them from GB.
Here is the general map to Fairhaven (not in Jersey or CT):
Saltheart - I think sodas would be fine, I plan to bring some as well...