John You closed it? well, here is what you asked for

[eelman]

Originally Posted by NIB

If u ask me Bill.
Ok, I know u did not ask..
Anyways I will thro out my 2 cents.
I have met U In person ur demeanor is so much more relaxed..
Why bother replying to every tom, #^&#^&#^&#^&, an harry that has a problem with u.Ur Not gonna change.U do what u want.Going back an forth,,U just fuel the flames..U should be confident enough in urself.To be able to just laugh it off.

I am trying to figure that out myself!! I cant help it and seem to be easily drawn in...its a hard habit to break...Your right its imposible to defend every single thing when its one against many..I hope I CAN TAKE THOSE WORDS AND USE THEM!It works to because I always come out on the losing end!