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07-07-2015, 09:12 PM
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Join Date: May 2003
Location: Easton, MA
Posts: 5,737
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Bob, give me a call when you want to fish or just grab a beer. I'll happily put off doing stuff around the house to get out and meet up with you.
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07-07-2015, 09:24 PM
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Callinectes sapidus
Join Date: Oct 2001
Posts: 6,277
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Originally Posted by 5/0
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,,,,,,My son is my 1 helper not only for the help but to teach him how to learn about manual labor but little does he know it's about bonding of a farther and son, I have taught him about low & line voltage, trouble shooting,mechanical fundamentals,and basic understanding how to truly work with your hands which = skilled labor And yyou'll sleep good at night.
It has been truly rewarding and most of you know my son that he's solid IIndividual. ,,,,,,,,,
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That's AWESOME stuff right there!!!
You definitely have things in order and just needed to vent -
Just like a bottle of beer....much better to pour out then burst because it's shaken up a bit.
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 ... it finally happened, there are no more secret spots
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07-08-2015, 12:51 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 2,939
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Doing jobs like that for friends or family can get very tricky and emotional. We both know you will always do what's right. So screw everyone and take some Bob time!
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07-08-2015, 02:28 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2002
Posts: 8,718
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I agree,why do a job on the cheap if it is taking away from fishing or family time? Charge more money and do less side work. Smarter not harder and make it worth your while.
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07-08-2015, 02:46 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: CT
Posts: 2,296
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5/0 and Nightfighter (lyme thread) take the time now. Everyday is a good day to be with family. I lost my brother 15 months ago, he was 28. I have no regrets because when we wanted to be together or could, we were. Maybe that is an extension of how hard we both worked individually, but if we wanted to we would stop everything and be together.
I have a 7 month old boy now, and he is my life. Work, not work, whatever as long as he is healthy. If work gets in the way, I'll quit before I say no to my kid. I work stupid hours too 9.5 by contract, 11 is normal 13+ is usual, and any more than that is almost expected.
This is year 6 of this schedule and I'm burnt out. I've toned it down for my son, but feel the work piling up. It is not good. I'm looking for a new arrangement of work. I hate to leave a job I started but the expectations are exceeding what I value both my time and family life at. This past year I was paid less after losing my brother and having a baby than the two previous years, meanwhile my boss played golf every week through the summer and I ate up his work like it was nothing. Shame on me.
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Point being, time with the family exceeds time at work. Your call
Last edited by Linesider82; 07-08-2015 at 03:04 PM..
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07-08-2015, 04:01 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2010
Location: East Hampton, CT
Posts: 1,076
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Great stuff
Great group here. Great read. You guys got it together...keep it going. I work on all this stuff every day...with no regrets.
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07-08-2015, 07:25 PM
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Eels
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Cape Cod,MA.
Posts: 3,333
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Originally Posted by fishrick
Great group here. Great read. You guys got it together...keep it going. I work on all this stuff every day...with no regrets.
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We are lucky to have a great group here,that's why I have no questions about posting my own bag o chit here,alot here see things on the same page as me and it helps when I have doubt.
Chris I hear what your saying but there is the fine line I tread on.These side jobs that I do are for friends (like Newport said) it's a FINE LINE.
But I'll read into each job and help people out when I feel needed hence the low balling effect, but the other side of the coin is working with my boy which is time unmeasurable...
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Live bait sharp hooks and timing is all you need
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07-09-2015, 07:40 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2002
Posts: 8,718
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Nothing wrong with helping out friends,it is something we all do. But the friends of friends.......
Personally,when I have work done I am just happy to have contractors show up and deliver on time. We finally just had central installed a couple weeks ago. Big job as I have forced hot water,13K! I had to find a new electrician as my friend that used to do my work passed about a month ago.(cancer)Kids the same age as my kids....I never would have asked or expected him to work for peanuts,I simply would have felt like a cheapskate as I know he had mouths to feed.
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