sounds like a lot of fustration coming out now, ref's, dropped balls, missed sacks, etc.

In the superbowl they usually let the players make the plays.
Bottom line was last night you had the Giants come into a game (that was enormous for your franchise, your quarterback and your coach) and they smacked you in the teeth and you were not prepared for it. Alot of your team was exposed last night and you still played one hell of a game.
You can alalyze it and blame who ever you want, but the end of it was your offense played bad, your defense broke and your special teams didn't do a hell of a lot and the giants had the better game plan, and got the players to believe they could do it and then went at you and got it done. That means you were out coached.
Hopefully this will not be the loss that will define your team, but it will be very difficult to overcome.