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07-30-2009, 08:49 PM
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sick of bluefish
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: TEXAS
Posts: 8,672
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My Mom passed away today
After a 3+ yr fight with cancer, my Mom passed away this afternoon. Its just over 4 yrs ago I also lost my Dad. They were married for 44 years. My Mom was 65, always active, exericsed, ate right. The last 6 weeks or so we had been taking care of her until a few weeks ago she moved into a hospice facililty, the nurses and doctors could not believe how strong she was, even though she was ready to go, her body kept going for days. My mom was a wonderful woman, she lived the live of a surfcasters wife and always supported my dad, they had a magical marriage. My best memories are sitting in the parking lot of Race Point in our 1974 ford van, eating portugese bread for breakfast. We camped every summer and had the greatest times. After my Dad died, she devoted herself to my kids and was a wonderful grandmother. I am worn out from the last few weeks and glad my Mom died peacfully. She will be missed every day.
Remember to take time to be with people you love, it goes by way to fast. And be sure to get check ups, if my parent's cancer was caught early enough they may be around today.
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07-30-2009, 08:52 PM
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Moderator
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Marshfield, MA
Posts: 6,267
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sorry for you loss Jimmy....she sure sounds like a great mom...
Peace,
Matt S.
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07-30-2009, 08:55 PM
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BigFish Bait Co.
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Hanover
Posts: 23,392
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Jimmy....it sounds as if you said it all. Your Mom sounds like she was everything anyone would ever want in a Mom.....and you were quite fortunate. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. As I always tell people....keep the great memories close to your heart and they will get you through the difficult time. Hoping your Mom has found peace.
BF
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Almost time to get our fish on!!! 
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07-30-2009, 09:02 PM
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Uncle Remus
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Lakeville Ma.
Posts: 14,773
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So sorry for your loss Jimmy. Thoughts and prayers for your mom , you , and your family.
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"A beach is a place where a man can feel he's the only soul in the world that's real"
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07-30-2009, 09:05 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Here and There Seasonally
Posts: 5,985
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I'm sorry for your loss Jimmy. Your Mother sounds a lot like my own, who I lost last Sept. It's tough but will pass. Remember her strength fondly, that helps
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He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty, he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself.
Thomas Paine
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07-30-2009, 09:22 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: On my boat
Posts: 9,686
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Very sorry for your loss Jimmy
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LETS GO BRANDON
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07-30-2009, 09:25 PM
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Scuttlebutt
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Westport,MA
Posts: 2,421
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Terribly sorry for your loss!! Wish all the best for you and your family
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Wasajigifying -[ was - a - jig-i-fy-ing] - the concept of not knowing what the hell your saying.
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07-30-2009, 09:29 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Bridgewater, MA
Posts: 2,030
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Very sorry to hear of your loss.
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07-30-2009, 09:35 PM
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Old Guy
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Mansfield, MA
Posts: 8,760
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My sympathies Jim. My MIL and FIL both passed within 90 days of each other in 2006.
Take the time to be with your friends and family as life is too short and a one way street into the future to not do so.
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07-30-2009, 09:51 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: MA/RI
Posts: 2,411
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My condolences to you and all of your family in the loss of your mom
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07-30-2009, 10:11 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: Warwick RI,02889
Posts: 11,702
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Jim ,
I,M truly sorry for the loss of your MOM . But ya know where ever she is its a better place than where she was .
I feel for your family But I really hope the grandkids are OK .
I,m so glad you have great memories ;
Leave your rods at home take a nite ride in the boat .. then just drift under the stars ..
As Always >.lets E N J O Y what we have >>today
MIKE
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ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE !!!
MIKE
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07-30-2009, 10:18 PM
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Geezer Gone Wild
Join Date: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,397
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Sorry to hear of your loss, Jimmy - I lost my mom in the very same way shortly after my Dad passed away
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, may God give you peace and comfort
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"There is no royal road to this heavy surf-fishing. With all the appliances for comfort experience can suggest, there is a certain amount of hard work to be done and exposure to be bourne as a part of the price of success." From "Striped Bass," Scribner's Magazine, 1881.
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07-30-2009, 10:55 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Easton, MA
Posts: 5,735
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Condolences to you and your family, Jim.
Thoughts and prayers to you all. As tough as things are right now, they'll get easier with time. The sadness will fade and the wonderful memories will take it's place to be cherished forever. It sounds like your mom was a wonderful woman who brought lots of joy to those around her and instilled a real sense of family in you. I'm sure she was very proud of raising such a fine son.
Whenever you feel up to getting out and wetting a line, or if you want to grab a beer, give me a call.
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Conservatism is not about leaving people behind. Conservatism is about empowering people to catch up, to give them tools at their disposal that make it possible for them to access all the hope, all the promise, all the opportunity that America offers. - Marco Rubio
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07-30-2009, 11:10 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2009
Posts: 75
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Jim; Very sorry for your loss.
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07-30-2009, 11:12 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Mansfield, MA
Posts: 5,238
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Jimmy,
My deepest and most sincere thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Your story is a reminder for me to strive to be as caring and thoughtful as possible for those around us whom we love.
The depth of appreciation and love you demonstrate for your mother is incredible.
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07-31-2009, 12:09 AM
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Hardcore Equipment Tester
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: Abington, MA
Posts: 6,234
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Jim sorry to hear about your mom.
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Bent Rods and Screaming Reels!
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07-31-2009, 04:43 AM
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Permanently Disconnected
Join Date: Nov 2002
Posts: 12,647
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Sorry for your loss RIJIM. T&P with you.
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07-31-2009, 04:59 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Posts: 22,805
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a very Sad day
I'm truly sorry for your loss Jim.....
thankfully you are imprinted with many memories
that will filter to the surface over time
giving you much comfort in the future.
You Have a part of your mom within you...
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07-31-2009, 05:38 AM
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Super Moderator
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Georgetown MA
Posts: 18,178
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Jimmy, Very Sorry to hear of your loss.
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07-31-2009, 06:30 AM
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Also known as OAK
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Westlery, RI
Posts: 10,349
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Jim,.
Very sorry to hear that, but I know she fought the good fight.
My offer stands, when you need some distraction, give me a call and we'll go chase some bass or fluke!
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"For once I agree with Spence. UGH. I just hope I don't get the urge to go start buying armani suits to wear in my shop"
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07-31-2009, 06:38 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: RI
Posts: 21,182
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Sorry to hear that Jimmy...
-spence
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07-31-2009, 06:41 AM
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Keep The Change
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Road to Serfdom
Posts: 3,275
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T&P, souinds like you had some good times. Now it is time to be there for your kids, they won't say it but they will be missing your Mom the most.
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“It’s not up to the courts to invent new minorities that get special protections,” Antonin Scalia
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07-31-2009, 07:01 AM
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Certifiable Intertidal Anguiologist
Join Date: Feb 2000
Location: Somewhere between OOB & west of Watch Hill
Posts: 34,960
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Jimmy - very sorry to hear this news. Thoughts and prayers for your mom, you, and all of the family. She sure sounded like a great lady and she is now back with your dad.
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07-31-2009, 07:04 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: CONNECTICUT
Posts: 851
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very sorry for your lost she was a very special person.my t&p are with you and family.
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07-31-2009, 07:32 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2001
Location: Rhode Island
Posts: 3,650
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My condolences, Jim...
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07-31-2009, 08:53 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Hyde Park, MA
Posts: 4,152
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Sorry to hear.
T&P
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07-31-2009, 09:05 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Burlington
Posts: 2,290
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Sorry for your loss Jim. T&P
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07-31-2009, 09:07 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2004
Location: South of Boston
Posts: 2,605
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Sorry to hear this Jimmy. Hang in there, it sounds like you had a great mother. Cherish the memories.
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The charm of fishing is that it is the pursuit of what is elusive but attainable, a perpetual series of occasions for hope. ~John Buchan
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07-31-2009, 09:38 AM
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I Had A BLAST!
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: I'm from Manhattan, Live in CT., but my heart is in SoCo!
Posts: 1,132
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I am truly sorry to hear of your loss, my friend. I too lost mom, a few years back. When I'm out on the rocks at night, I think of her often. I truly miss my mom, as well. I know, from what you posted that she is home with our Father.
I will pray for you and your family in this time of sorrow. Be strong my friend, and God bless you.
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07-31-2009, 09:44 AM
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Registered Grandpa
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: east coast
Posts: 8,592
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Jimmy, T+P will continue for you and your family.
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