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Originally Posted by Jim in CT
Did you have parents?
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I was raised by an angry group of bowmen known as the bowmen's union. By the time I was 5 I was being chased by pro ho's. At 6 I scaled by hand my first 100+ foot rig in the middle of a gale to retrieve a halyard. By 12 they unveiled the ancient scripts from NYYC saying the one with the monkey feet would be the herald of the bowmen, which was me.
Ask Nebe, he'll vouch.
I was raised by extremely accomplished offshore sailors. My mother has more miles than most Navy folks will ever have.
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Do you have kids (God I hope not)?
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They would certainly get in the way of fishin and sailin.
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I spent exactly zero time with her. But I know that there's great reasons why 16 year-olds can't even drive a car in many states without adult supervision. I know that 16 year-olds aren't allowed to drink or even vote. Because they aren't developed enough, aren't mature enough, to make those kinds of decisions.
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So tell me what voting, drinking, or driving a car has to do with sailing solo? Other than absolutely NOTHING.
I'm sure you're a great dad and your kids love you, but don't ever tell anyone else what they can or can't do or what their kids can or can't do. They just might do it anyhow and make you look bad.
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Originally Posted by Jim in CT
OK, so you're saying parents are never justified in saying "no" to teenagers because what they want is too risky...that's what you're seriously saying?
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Lets put this bluntly.
You have exactly zero knowledge of what it takes to sail offshore solo.
You have exactly zero knowledge of this kid's background.
You have no right to judge her or the parents.