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05-07-2009, 08:24 PM
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Registered Grandpa
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: east coast
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Prayers needed-
A friend of the family, Sydney's son, Johanathan, commited suicide after having
an arguement with his Dad.
His Dad is so distraught he hasn't been able to return home to his house since the incident.
His feelings of loss and guilt are overwhelming. I can't even imagine how he must feel.
Thanks
dave
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05-07-2009, 09:29 PM
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got gas?
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brutal just brutal
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05-07-2009, 09:32 PM
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Certifiable Intertidal Anguiologist
Join Date: Feb 2000
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Bad news Dave - T&P
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~Fix the Bait~ ~Pogies Forever~
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05-07-2009, 09:45 PM
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BigFish Bait Co.
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Hanover
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That is just terrible Dave. Breaks my heart to hear news like that. Prayers out to the family.
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05-08-2009, 04:53 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2002
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so sorry to hear
peoples mental health can be
so underestimated
Thoughts and Prayers sent to your friend.
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05-08-2009, 06:21 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Mansfield
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Very sad news Dave. My prayers go out to the family. Just tragic.
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05-08-2009, 09:22 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2000
Location: Cumberland,RI
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What a shame. Got to be the worst way to lose a child. Prayers for the family.
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05-08-2009, 09:44 AM
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sick of bluefish
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: TEXAS
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man, thats awful, t and p sent
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05-08-2009, 11:10 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Burlington
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From one who has been through this -- he has to seek professional help as soon as possible. I lost a grandson the same way a few years ago. Most important to get to a professional.
Prayers sent for the family.
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05-08-2009, 11:10 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Hyde Park, MA
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The father is going to carry this "guilt" around like a ox yoke, unless he eventually realizes that his son had underlying issues that the father may not have any knowledge of, or could do nothing about.
The argument just happened to be the final straw. It could have easily been anyone or anything else that may have triggered his demise.
If arguing with parents were to cause that much grief, we'd all have been basket cases in our own times.
I feel bad for the father, because no parent should outlive their children. It's just not right.
Unfortunately, there are some people that either can't be saved, or can't be reached in time to avoid these tragedies.
My prayers go out to the family.
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05-08-2009, 11:43 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Between a rock and a hard place
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I can't even imagine the grief, Thoughts & Prayers
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Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day ...
show him where to fish and ... you'll be sorry
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05-08-2009, 03:19 PM
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Uncle Remus
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Lakeville Ma.
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T&P for your friend Dave. Sad story. If you get some time give me a call sometime. Long time no hear.
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"A beach is a place where a man can feel he's the only soul in the world that's real"
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05-08-2009, 03:50 PM
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wow. that is incredibly sad.. I cant imagine...  |
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05-08-2009, 04:41 PM
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I Had A BLAST!
Join Date: Oct 2006
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That is very, very sad news. As a dad, I can't imagine how the father must be feeling. I hope he will be ok. I will pray for peace. That the family would be well.Very sad indeed.
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05-08-2009, 05:27 PM
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Afterhours Custom Plugs
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: R.I.
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wow that's so sad...my heart goes out to the dad and his family, T's &P's...
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05-08-2009, 05:35 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: N.K.
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Truly sad news.I hope he is a strong man.Condolences to the family.
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05-08-2009, 05:38 PM
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Super Moderator
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Location: Middleboro MA
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Wow Dave, I'm so sorry to hear that. He is going to need lots of support, I can't imagine how he feels. He's in our prayers. |
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05-08-2009, 06:03 PM
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Stuck In Reality
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Holden MA
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Deepest condolences to your friend's family. I can't even imagine what he is going through.
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05-08-2009, 06:19 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: Warwick RI,02889
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DAVE;
Just my P & T .. for this tragaty [sp]
MIKE
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ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE !!!
MIKE
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05-08-2009, 08:21 PM
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Eels
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Cape Cod,MA.
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Wow,Im so sorry to hear of such an unspeackable act to fall on a Family.This is very bad new's.......My family & I reach out and send our deepest condolences,
many Thoughts & Prayers going to him & his family this Sunday and many more to follow........
Bob
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Live bait sharp hooks and timing is all you need
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05-08-2009, 09:45 PM
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Registered Grandpa
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: east coast
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Thanks to all for your P+T, i really appreciate it.
You guys are The Best.
I will tell him at the memorial service of your sincere concerns and prayers.
Hope it will help him not to feel so alone.
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" Choose Life "
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05-08-2009, 09:56 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Here and There Seasonally
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Horribly heartbreaking. You never know what 's in someone's head and very little you can do about it, my thoughts and prayers for both....
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He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty, he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself.
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05-08-2009, 11:27 PM
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OLDGOAT7205963
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: CAPE
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so sorry for your loss. stay close to his dad,don,t leave him alone he will need your help. been there, it will take along time
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05-09-2009, 06:42 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: CONNECTICUT
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just terrible news dave t&p for you friend.so sad
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05-09-2009, 04:36 PM
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Moderator
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Marshfield, MA
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thoughts & prayers sent Dave....
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05-10-2009, 07:28 PM
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Retired Surfer
Join Date: Dec 2000
Location: Sunset Grill
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Been there, no easy answer. My condolences.
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Swimmer a.k.a. YO YO MA
Serial Mailbox Killer/Seal Fisherman
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