very, very hard to deal with a kid who's not your own but your other halfs. lost a good relationship because of a womans kids. we are talking teenagers. there is a very fine line you have to walk and don't step over it at all costs. at the end i just walked away because i could not get any piece of mind at all. the kids put the guilt trip on the parent that there with, then play both ends against the middle with the other. kids are lazy, period. when i was younger, i'd try almost anything to get out of my chores. just for the simple reason, to see if i could do it.
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