Here's a thought, if you ask her to marry you, you will have all the time you need she will be so busy planning the wedding she even know your not there.
Geeze, Bob, the money for a wedding would buy a heck of a lot of gear! JustKidding, relationships aren't easy.
He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty, he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself.
Thomas Paine