My world has come to an end.

[fish4striper]

Sorry for your loss, RIP to Lori
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[justplugit]

So sorry for your loss, fish raptor.
I know there are no words to express your grief, sorrow and feelings.
Know that my wife and I will be praying for Lori and for the strength and peace
for you and the families. God Bless you.
Dave

[Guppy]

That's terrible , sorry for your loss, be stronge

[Raven]

i have to tell you this because i feel
like your so saturated with grief that you'll
try to end your pain thinking to join her
in the afterlife.... it doesn't work like that

each incarnation... a life on earth
is for the purpose to learn vital lessons
supposedly to get closer and closer to GOD
or to achieve perfection, But when you take
your own life you take a step backwards in that
transition....(progression)
so don't make the same mistake.

Time in the afterlife is not really experienced
as there are no calendars, seasons, sunsets ,or clocks.

your next 40 years or so of Life will seem like
just a moment for Lori .... so it is written

you can cherish the memories and stay alone
and miserable or
someday when you've had sufficient
time to manage your pain of the loss...

you might once again stumble into
a second relationship that offers you some measure of
happiness... (hopefully you'll be so lucky)

the greatest thing is that a person always keeps analyzing
endlessly what they could have done to have kept it from happening
and that is basically non constructive... changes nothing.

She would have wanted you to take good care of yourself despite
her act of desperation based solely on emotion. Be logical.

...be thankful for the time you had.... be grateful for the love
you shared... but you still need to Love yourself enough
to take it one day at a time... and fill your life with JOY
where ever (when ever) you can possibly find it.

Nature helps in that regard because of the unfathomable beauty
it bestows upon us.... and when you see it...
think of it as Lori speaking to you in a soft spoken way thru nature to ease your pain.

[OLD GOAT]

My heart goes out to you and I'll say prayers for your gal.
You are not alone, I lost my little brother about thirty years ago.
He couldn't find a way out and wouldn't talk about it to anyone.
After getting sober I tried working with others and not all of them made it but those that did are a shinning light amongst men.
I ask you to keep talking with anyone you feel comfortable with and not withdraw from people.
You don't want to hear this know but it will become more bearable as time goes by.
Don't be afraid to stay in touch .
Remember ---just for today. you can do it.

[fish raptor]

Originally Posted by Raven

i have to tell you this because i feel
like your so saturated with grief that you'll
try to end your pain thinking to join her
in the afterlife.... it doesn't work like that

each incarnation... a life on earth
is for the purpose to learn vital lessons
supposedly to get closer and closer to GOD
or to achieve perfection, But when you take
your own life you take a step backwards in that
transition....(progression)
so don't make the same mistake.

Time in the afterlife is not really experienced
as there are no calendars, seasons, sunsets ,or clocks.

your next 40 years or so of Life will seem like
just a moment for Lori .... so it is written

you can cherish the memories and stay alone
and miserable or
someday when you've had sufficient
time to manage your pain of the loss...

you might once again stumble into
a second relationship that offers you some measure of
happiness... (hopefully you'll be so lucky)

the greatest thing is that a person always keeps analyzing
endlessly what they could have done to have kept it from happening
and that is basically non constructive... changes nothing.

She would have wanted you to take good care of yourself despite
her act of desperation based solely on emotion. Be logical.

...be thankful for the time you had.... be grateful for the love
you shared... but you still need to Love yourself enough
to take it one day at a time... and fill your life with JOY
where ever (when ever) you can possibly find it.

Nature helps in that regard because of the unfathomable beauty
it bestows upon us.... and when you see it...
think of it as Lori speaking to you in a soft spoken way thru nature to ease your pain.

The pain is numbing and general easy day to day tasks are brutal.

Thank you for you kinds words..... they help and do make a difference.

She made me a better man and showed me was true love really was all about.

I hope to one day take that boat out and somehow smile, even if its a small smile and gently converse and picture her along side of me.