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Old 03-31-2016, 07:22 PM   #1
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If I have learned anything in this process is you need to LIVE life for whatever days you have. None of us know how long we have so live each day as if it was your last!

Losing my wife is the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my life and the second most isn't even close.

Sorry to highjack the thread. Chris what you will find is you have far more friends than you realized and far more people that care. Don't try to to deal with this on your own use the love that will come your way.

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Old 03-31-2016, 07:58 PM   #2
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If I have learned anything in this process is you need to LIVE life for whatever days you have. None of us know how long we have so live each day as if it was your last!

Losing my wife is the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my life and the second most isn't even close.

Sorry to highjack the thread. Chris what you will find is you have far more friends than you realized and far more people that care. Don't try to to deal with this on your own use the love that will come your way.
I can't speak for Chris but you didn't hijack this thread...
I feel for you Jeff and ,I can't imagine losing my wife/partner in crime, but I too had a rough 2015.
I buried 7 family members and put my pup's down the Monday before t day.
Find it within and you will find your place. Bluecrab was a Huge part in helping me find my solitude.
And I'm still here thanks to him.

I wish you well buddy and stay strong.As always Chris, I hope you have closure with your mom God bless and God speed.

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Old 03-31-2016, 08:16 PM   #3
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5/0 thank you for your words and sorry for your loses and difficult 2015.

I see you are from Mansfield my wife was born and raised in Foxboro and was a die hard Pats fan. This November my sister in law managed through connections where she works get my wife a Tom Brady signed football with a personalized note from him on it. I can still see the smile and happy tears when she got it.

She was only 53 years old and I miss her dearly.
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Old 04-04-2016, 09:40 PM   #4
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I can't speak for Chris but you didn't hijack this thread...
I feel for you Jeff and ,I can't imagine losing my wife/partner in crime, but I too had a rough 2015.
I buried 7 family members and put my pup's down the Monday before t day.
Find it within and you will find your place. Bluecrab was a Huge part in helping me find my solitude.
And I'm still here thanks to him.

I wish you well buddy and stay strong.As always Chris, I hope you have closure with your mom God bless and God speed.

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exactly . this is open for any one who wants to share their pain . We are all going through it . Cancer doesnt discriminate !! IT SUCKS .

No Highjacking , Im fine with you sharing cause if it helps with your pain , its all good .

5/0 you certainly have had a tough time . We all get stronger but it sure is painful to get there .

5/0 , Jeff , Mikey and Joe stay strong

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Old 04-04-2016, 09:51 PM   #5
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I finally have had a few minutes to read what you all have had to say and THANK YOU from my family and from my heart . Today Mom had a good day . I hug and kiss her every day and let her know how wonderful of a Mom she has been , just in case she forgets I told her yesterday .

Mom appreciates all the words that have been spoken on her behalf .
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