Jenn, I am right there with you....I was never married in a church...I do not go to church either....
God will love you no matter who you are and he will not love you "more" if you go to church....
I'm not a very religous person, my mother tortured me with sending me to Catholic school, and soon I was removed because a nun cut off my hair, because I would not keep it out of my face

....my mom was not very happy with that, when I came home crying with a chop-job boy hair cut...I was 7 with hair down to my mid-back...
At that point all 7 years old I thought, why would God care if my hair is in my face, or why would God care if I didnt write properly because I am left handed.....eh, go figure.....
Sometimes I wonder if there is a God....(for personal reasons)
