I think you must vigorously investigate all of the aformentioned rememdies mentioned above. To assist in translating this thread hijack that has occurred, I have developed a pictoral representation of the "remedies" proposed by Misters Raven and Dangles, with a dash of additional common sense
: What the doctors say, some are actually trying to help people instead of just in for the money
: Excercise to get those endorphins in shape
: The getting laid part often fosters enhanced, deeper - so there is a double whammy
(just make sure you have the "unexpected widget prevention device engaged")