It will all work out. Re-arrange your priorities as to what you think---
is the most important first. You will be a Father, and imho the most important job you will ever have. Whatever sacrafices you make will be worth it. It's kinda like pay me now or pay me later.
Make time for your wife as if that relationship falls apart so will everything else.
Re-arrange your priorities as to what you think--- 
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