Hypothetical Question?

[The Dad Fisherman]

What's your Gut feeling....thats what you need to go by.

Personally, If I thought someone was just out and out Stealing, I would say something.

[Karl F]

The host ot hostess would've know what transpired imediatley, and it would be their call as to what to do, from there on out.. the party of the first part, needs to address their drinking and or klepto problem, ASAP.
Regardless, of wether they would miss it or not.. not only would the "perp" know.. but, if I'd witnessed it and called them on it, as you said.. then I would know.. me?.. I like to look at that guy in the mirror in the eyes every morning.....

[blue oyster]

not sure what i would do in that situation other than not invite those people to my house .

[echoisland]

just put yourself in the situation where someone is stealing from you. wouldn't you want to know about it? i would say something.