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Old 08-20-2008, 08:37 AM   #1
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It's not the kids, it's the parents.

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I think the best way to handle kids is to make thier parents held accountable..If a kid steals a car and totals it, the parents should pay for it...not the insurance co.

If parents knew THEY had something to loose by thier looser kids, I guarantee reform schools would be busting at the seams and sales in video game consoles would plummet
As a teacher I can tell you the lack of parenting that happens in this day of broken homes and out of wedlock child bearing is absolutely frightening. Add to that the consumptive spoiling heaped on the other kids by their overcompensating parents and we have a generation of amoral sociopaths and entitled kids who have no idea how to behave respectfully or appropriately, much less feel empathy for someone else.

I agree with Eben- until parents are forced to bear the consequences of their parenting methods they will continue to blame the schools and everyone else for their child’s behavior. MAKE them pay for what the child destroys. MAKE them spend a morning in Saturday school when their child tells the teacher to F-off. MAKE them miss work to come take their child out of school when they bully another child. MAKE them take parenting courses after their child has been in trouble repeatedly. MAKE THEM ACCOUNTABLE.

We teachers try, but we can’t raise your kids in the 1 hour a day they spend in our classrooms.

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Old 08-21-2008, 11:42 AM   #2
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Ever run into any good kids?
Seems like their either sociopaths or spoiled brats.

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I agree with Eben- until parents are forced to bear the consequences of their parenting methods they will continue to blame the schools and everyone else for their child’s behavior. MAKE them pay for what the child destroys. MAKE them spend a morning in Saturday school when their child tells the teacher to F-off. MAKE them miss work to come take their child out of school when they bully another child. MAKE them take parenting courses after their child has been in trouble repeatedly. MAKE THEM ACCOUNTABLE.

We teachers try, but we can’t raise your kids in the 1 hour a day they spend in our classrooms.

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God bless ya Woody, teachers are some of the most dedicated people we have in this country,
working under severe stress and lack of respect.


MAKE THE PARENTS ACCOUNTABLE is the only answer as a lot of parents are not doing their job in raising disciplined kids.

After i retired, i substitute taught in the public high schools because i love kids and thought after working 38 years ,in different capacities, i had something to offer.

Kids were out of control in the way they treated each other.

Parents were out of control in backing their kids rather than even trying to get at the reason why they were having a problem with their teachers.

Switched to private high schools where the parents backed the teachers and took an interest in their kids education.
If kids got out of hand, or were disrespectful they were suspended or thrown out.

Very few discipline problems.

Alot of hard work, but you could see the results for your efforts,
instead of babysitting a bunch of punks.

BTW Joe, there are some real good kids out there too.

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