John my heart goes out to you and your family sincerely at the loss of your Dad. Losing your Dad is a tough moment in anyones life and it naturally leaves a great void. I miss my Dad terribly each day. From my own loss several years ago the best advice I can give is just to cherish your Dad's memory and celebrate his life at this time. The week my Dad passed was a tough one and I spent the time getting a photo collage and mementos that represented my Dads life and accomplishments and his passions together and I had them on display in the funeral home for folks to see and it gave them some insight into who my Dad was and the wonderful life that he led. This was a great "distraction" for me and all the memories this process brought out that week really helped not only me but also my family. Be strong for your family John and those great memories of your Dad will get you through it. Keep them close now and always. I wish you and your family strength going forward.
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