RIP AL Pelini

[sonofstriper]

Thank you to everyone for your kind words about my dad - I know it would have meant so much to him to hear such great things from his friends in the fishing community.

As you can imagine, our family is still in shock and morning the loss of our father, husband, grandfather and friend.

There are still many unanswered questions about my dad's death and we are awaiting a report from the Boston medical examiner tomorrow. I will do my best to let you all know of the findings.

Although we do not yet have funeral plans because the ME has not released my dad for burial, we know that the funeral will be at Hill Funeral Home in East Greenwich, RI.

As you know, my dad's #1 love (apart from his family) was striper fishing and in the end, he died doing what he loved.

[WESTPORTMAFIA]

God bless you and your family.

Originally Posted by sonofstriper

Thank you to everyone for your kind words about my dad - I know it would have meant so much to him to hear such great things from his friends in the fishing community.

As you can imagine, our family is still in shock and morning the loss of our father, husband, grandfather and friend.

There are still many unanswered questions about my dad's death and we are awaiting a report from the Boston medical examiner tomorrow. I will do my best to let you all know of the findings.

Although we do not yet have funeral plans because the ME has not released my dad for burial, we know that the funeral will be at Hill Funeral Home in East Greenwich, RI.

As you know, my dad's #1 love (apart from his family) was striper fishing and in the end, he died doing what he loved.

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[BigFish]

Deepest condolences for your loss.

[bart]

very sorry for your loss

[redlite]

Originally Posted by sonofstriper

Thank you to everyone for your kind words about my dad - I know it would have meant so much to him to hear such great things from his friends in the fishing community.

As you can imagine, our family is still in shock and morning the loss of our father, husband, grandfather and friend.

There are still many unanswered questions about my dad's death and we are awaiting a report from the Boston medical examiner tomorrow. I will do my best to let you all know of the findings.

Although we do not yet have funeral plans because the ME has not released my dad for burial, we know that the funeral will be at Hill Funeral Home in East Greenwich, RI.

As you know, my dad's #1 love (apart from his family) was striper fishing and in the end, he died doing what he loved.

I respect your time of grievence, but this has still been eatin at me. Though my time talking with and fishin with your dad was limited to when he would be visiting my island, I always walked away cherishing the moments. Though we may never know, I would be appreciative of any update as to what happened.
Again, my condolences to you, your family, and all those who he touched.
Respectfully,
Mike Veracka

[sonofstriper]

Hi all,

Again, thank you all for your outpouring of support for my dad. We have been reading your blog posts over and over and mom crys every time to think that dad was so well loved in the fishing community. It's funny, we all knew he loved to fish, but we really had no idea how many people he touched as a result.

I know so many of you would like to know what happened and I'm very sorry to report that the medical examiner has now concluded that the cause of death was accidental drowning and not heart attack or some other cause. This news was particularly devastating to our family as I know it will be to all of you. What is most surprising to me is that this happened to my dad who ALWAYS taught me to respect the ocean and never turn my back on the surf. We knew dad took risks fishing, but I always trusted that the risks were reasonable and that he had taken proper precautions to avoid injury. When I asked, he told me that he always wore a life vest when wet suiting. Clearly in this case he was not wearing a life vest and he was fishing alone which was not smart.

A special thank you to all who were involved in the search and recovery of his body. We hope to be in contact with you shortly to express our thanks personally.

I know my dad wouldn't have been living if he couldn't fish and he died doing what he loved, but he left a huge hole in our lives that will never be filled. If no other good comes from dad's death, I hope that all of you guys will recognize the risks associated with your sport and not take undue risk (especially as you get older) if only for the sake of your families.

For those who are local, dad's wake will be held at Hill Funeral Home in East Greenwich, RI this Wednesday from 5 - 8pm and his funeral will be the following day at 10am at Our Lady of Mercy also in East Greewich.

My kindest regards,

Mike

[numbskull]

Mike, I am sorry about the loss of your father.
It sounds as if he lived life fully and left a positive mark on many others, the very definition of a life well lived.

As for how he died, the medical examiner report unfortunately does not always tell the full story. Cardiac arrhythmias often cause sudden death and leave no sign of heart attack. Such events often result in several gasping breaths after loss of consciousness and, if occurring in water, would cause aspiration that on autopsy would look like drowning. Your father was very experienced swimming in a wetsuit and the suit provides a lot flotation. There is a good chance something caused him to lose consciousness before he passed.

[angler229]

Very sorry for the loss of your father. RIP Al.